Originally posted by DancinDog
I'm baffled how an opponent can start a new game with first move and all with an invite or an acceptance on my part. Nothing personal or abusive but I keep getting a new first move in a new game after winning and don't wish to play again!!!???
It's the way this site works, normally . Anyone can challenge anyone else, and anyone receiving a challenge can choose to delete it without penalty. It's a logical routine which gets the new game started faster, rather than exchanging private messages which can delay things for a day or more. Delete any game you don't want to play. If it's just a matter of colour or time control preference, delete that game and create a suitable one yourself.
You have the facility in your MySettings page to set your challenge games to zero so that nobody can challenge you.