@Great-Big-Stees saidI was talking about VR's comment that he has to want to change.
Come on Suzie you know that many threads go “off coarse”.🤔😉👍
"How many people does it take to change a light bulb?
Only one, but the light bulb has to really want to change."
Now we all know that change comes from within, and is totally ineffective if the person does not want to change. Like quitting smoking. Without a great desire to quit, the person will not quit. He has to really want to change.