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Originally posted by PalynkaTurn the news on..seems we're getting back into barbarism
I'm glad the world is a lot less barbaric these days. 😕
Originally posted by Traveling AgainSure people react differently to different things and yes expulsion us psychologically damaging and should only be used as a last resort. However, I just don't see why a teacher has a right to hit a student unless it is self defense. You wouldn't let a boss hit a worker, would you? You wouldn't let a spouse hit someone to discipline them. You wouldn't a nehgbor hit some one to teach him a lesson. We don't even let cops hit criminals. We actually give people a trial. Students have the same rights to not be hit by othesr. Schools should model non-violent conflict resolution and those who resort to assault should be arrested. The line is simple. If you use physical contact you should be arrested.
But where do we draw the line? Can't someone argue that expelling a student or failing a
student is psychological assault. Can't it be more harmful to certain students to be expelled
then it would be to swat them with a ruler or paddle?
When I was a grade-school student around 13 or 14 yrs old I had the option of choosing to get
5-10 swa ...[text shortened]... at individuals react
differently (for better or worse) to different forms of punishment?
Originally posted by quackquackI said it is a parental prerogative, not a teachers. Teachers have no business hitting kids nor should schools condone such behavior. However, I frimly believe a parent has the right, short of abuse, to impose the discipline style they see fit to administer. If you disagree with spanking that's OK as well. I simply do not want the state making that call for people, exceptin outright abuse cases. I happen to think most teachers are great, but there are nut cases out there. You seldom hear of a parent dict taping a kid to the wall or making them sit in trash cans for hours. I'm not sayinh parents do no abuse, but generally they have an inborn incentive to treat their children well! Teachers don't!
You might believe that it is ok for teachers to hit kids to discipline. I don't. Schools have enough violence without teacher on student violence and teachers have enough to do without asking them to smack around kids. If students are really disobedient: fail them, arrest them, expel them, suspend them but no one has a right to assault another human be ...[text shortened]... e profanity based tirades directed at a player or forcing a player to do punishment activities.
Originally posted by quackquackI'm not talking about random or spontaneous in-the-moment hitting. More like part of the rules.
Sure people react differently to different things and yes expulsion us psychologically damaging and should only be used as a last resort. However, I just don't see why a teacher has a right to hit a student unless it is self defense. You wouldn't let a boss hit a worker, would you? You wouldn't let a spouse hit someone to discipline them. You wouldn ...[text shortened]... uld be arrested. The line is simple. If you use physical contact you should be arrested.
Originally posted by Traveling AgainI actually think the difference in purpose is significant. Doing pushups to get into maximum game condition is ok. Doing pushups because you bobbled the snap is different. We do not allow cops to smack someone for jay walking or double parking and we should not allow teachers to structure their rules that way either.
I'm not talking about random or spontaneous in-the-moment hitting. More like part of the rules.
If you break rule #3 you will get a swat on the ass. If you break rule #5 you'll get 2 swats, etc.
And especially tie that into athletics. Break rule #8, run laps or do push-ups or something
else that is physically painful. Is there a difference b ...[text shortened]... e a physical pain as punishment. So, is
any physical punishment to be considered "abuse"?
Originally posted by quackquackTeachers should be allowed to write tickets and force the kid's parents to cough up $100 for each offense of bad behavior, just like cops. I think that would be great!
I actually think the difference in purpose is significant. Doing pushups to get into maximum game condition is ok. Doing pushups because you bobbled the snap is different. We do not allow cops to smack someone for jay walking or double parking and we should not allow teachers to structure their rules that way either.
Originally posted by EladarHow do you teach responsibility by punishing the parents? This has been tried with truancy and has had little if any impact on reducing truancy! What teachers need is greater authority to get rid of problem students. When my little boy was in first grade a student, mainstreamed against the better judgment of staff but forced by obscure rules to do so, almost gouged out the eye of his teacher with a pencil. The principal knew this kid was a problem and had issues of violence. First grade no less. Only because several of us parents demanded action did this little monster get placed back in special ed at a different school where he ended up doing very well. His needs were not being met in a mainstream class!
Teachers should be allowed to write tickets and force the kid's parents to cough up $100 for each offense of bad behavior, just like cops. I think that would be great!
Originally posted by scacchipazzoI agree - students that pose a clear and present danger to others in the class need to be removed.
How do you teach responsibility by punishing the parents? This has been tried with truancy and has had little if any impact on reducing truancy! What teachers need is greater authority to get rid of problem students. When my little boy was in first grade a student, mainstreamed against the better judgment of staff but forced by obscure rules to do so, a ...[text shortened]... nt school where he ended up doing very well. His needs were not being met in a mainstream class!
Originally posted by shortcircuitand because you were beaten as a child you thought it was acceptable to do the same to your children? that's not unusual i'm sure... it takes a certain type of person to radically change the way they bring up their own kids. i'd be interested if your children carry on the tradition when/if they have kids.
I have raised 4 so far. When you have raised one come back and talk to me.
I am not saying it is the only way to discipline either, but if corporal punishment is required to get the attention, then I am for it.
I went to a private high school where the teachers hit us with bare fists, wooden paddles, split baseball bats, pool cues, metal rulers, ru ...[text shortened]... took longer on some than others, they were able to get their point across about proper behavior.
Originally posted by uzlessHere, here! You hit it on the head, knocked it out of the park and with the bases loaded!
Correction..you can teach SOME kids without having to hit them. Some kids only respond to a smack on the arse. It's time we put away these notions of one size fits all.
Every other animal on this planet uses a bit of violence to bring its kid into line...why are we any different?
Originally posted by trev33I got hit by my Father ONCE!!!! I wasn't going to ever have that happen again. The fear of it happening again was a deterrent. DO YOU UNDERSTAND?
and because you were beaten as a child you thought it was acceptable to do the same to your children? that's not unusual i'm sure... it takes a certain type of person to radically change the way they bring up their own kids. i'd be interested if your children carry on the tradition when/if they have kids.
at the time how did you feel towards the people at ...[text shortened]... ought of better ways to deal with the situations that led to hitting your kids.