you'll be able to delete the game with pwnage101.
None of your opponents is anywhere near out of time, the default game time allows opponents to make one move every 3 days. If you wish to play faster you have several options:
Play blitz - real-time chess, click on the link at the right of the screen under the"logout".
Don't accept open invites unless they are 1 day timeout, 0 days timebank. Better still, set up open invites yourself with your preferred time controls - and it doesn't hurt to put in the "game name" field something like "fast game" or "5 moves per day".
This is mainly a Correspondence Chess website where it's a slightly different game from real-time chess. You can replay the game, try out different moves, look up chess books and databases (but not use chess engines such as Fritz); but to offset that each move can take quite a bit longer.
If you want to play frequent moves, the best idea is to pay the subscription, then you can have as much play as you like.