I'm a fair chess player who could probably be a really good chess player if I ever put some real effort into the game. I never have though. I play chess for fun, and planning your game a dozen moves in advance is not my idea of fun. I usually have no long term strategy, and just wait for my opponent to mess up. You'd be surprised how often that works.
I'm not a very social person, and I rarely respond to messages. It's not that I'm ignoring you, it's just that most times I don't know what to say.
I try to play only 1 day timeout games, and prefer to move several times a day. That's because on longer games I forget what my next move was supposed to be, and leaving notes is one of those things I never seem to get around to.
If you are late on a 1 day timeout game I will usually give you an extra day or two, but if it's a 3 day or longer game I will claim the skull immediatly.