Reminder??

Call me blind but how do I sent a reminder to someone?

if your opponent has not moved, just click on the reminder icon along
side their name, within your games option. the icon is displayed as an
envelope

Maybe I am blind? But there are no icons by any of my opponets
names except for Rhymester who has a star my his name!?

A reminder icon will automatically appear next to a game where a
move has not been made within the time out period ie if the t/o is 3
days and your opponent hasn't made a move in 3 days, a reminder
icon will appear next to that game (look on the "your games" page), if
you click on it a reminder will be sent to your opponent.

I'm new too(and not very good) but if your fancy a game challenge
me.

I believe the reminder icon will automatically appear when your
opponent hasn't moved in two days, regardless of the time-out period
selected. When the icon appears, just click on it and a reminder is
sent and the icon then will disappear. If your opponent hasn't moved
and the time-out period is reached, another icon will appear allowing
you to claim a victory against that opponent. You do not have to send
reminders or claim victory. It is optional on your part.

Regards, Marc Miller

Is it that this reminber icon does not appear until after the first four
moves of the game and the delete button has disappeared?

I HAVE NOT BEEN A MEMBER THAT LONG, BUT AS FAR AS I AM AWARE
WITH A NEW GAME IF YOU ACCEPT A CHALLANGE YOU HAVE THE
OPTION TO DELETE/CANCEL THE GAME WITHIN AROUND 3 MOVES. THE
REMINDER ICON WILL ALWAYS APPEAR IF YOUR OPPONENT HAS NOT
MOVED FOR 3 DAYS. EVERY TIME YOU MAKE A MOVE AN EMAIL WILL
AUTOMATICALLY BE SENT TO YOUR OPPONENT. SO THEY WILL BE
AWARE YOU HAVE MADE A MOVE.