thanks for the reply; but I checked and we basically played daily a 3d/7d game until 19 nov, since then he replied not anymore; so his timebank is depleting but mine seems too or at least it did at some point!!! if you want, you can check out: it's my current game against thehunnomad
"Last moved 4 days 5 hours and 26 minutes ago" which is what you'd expect for him to have used all his 3 days plus a day of timebank. If he doesn't return you'll see the skull in about a week. Your own timebank is only about 12 hours used; I don't recall any recent downtime (when they stop the timebank clocks) so I can't explain that.