where's the game?

I challenged a player, chose white and made a move: the player responded with a move, I'm informed by a RedHotPawn move notification e-mail, but when I click on the link in the e-mail the game doesn't appear. It also isn't listed in "My Games".

???

It's quite possible that the opponent had second thoughts and trashed the game. The deletion emails can often turn up hours late.

Oh - thanks