Gayety

Originally posted by orfeo
Um, I think you'll find the joke had less to do with environmental impact and more to do with the desirability of passing on one particular person's genes.

that's kind of uncalled for.

Originally posted by GinoJ
My heart is full of gayety, I am happily married for 2 years but my wife does not want a kid. That disrupts my gayety.

Why do young women are against having kids nowadays?

Discuss.

Being married and not having children is a waste of time. Before my daughter was born, I led a shallow, pointless life.

Originally posted by Zahlanzi

and you haven't said wheter she has a job. what will happen to her job if she has a kid? who will leave their job to raise the kid?

Dont wait until she is forty, having forty year old eggs, and the probabilities of malformation that age increasingly brings, for her to turn to you and say with tears in her eyes that the one thing she would really have loved to have had, for which she would readily give up her job title and all of the perks that that brought, would be to have a little bundle of joy all of her own.

Increasingly more and more women are approaching forty before they have their first kid, and they are suffering for it. What the feminazi's didnt tell them in the 70's and 80 and 90's, was that you can have evreything, you should be empowered to have everything, but just not all at the same time.

Facts are facts. If you are younger, ie less than 30, you as a woman will recover better from a pregnancy with less probability of post natal depression and other medical complications. Not only that you will have the physical strength and vigor to kep up with your new little energizer bunnies. I am not saying a forty year old should'nt try, except that if they were putting it off so that they could first settle their life in terms of their personal self fulfilment and professional advancement, they may not anticipate the difficulties they might face once they start thinking of having kids.

In some ways some of the biggest issues stem from the fact that they will raise their kids more as if they were grandparents. Too much wisdom and consideration can lead to indecision and lack of focus with the result that the kids just grow up older than they possibly should. The other sad truth is that the experience of having a child at forty is usually enough to discourage any mother wanting to go through it again, with the result that if you wait, you will probably have an only child.

Originally posted by Sam The Sham
Being married and not having children is a waste of time. Before my daughter was born, I led a shallow, pointless life.

Apparently nothing changed.

Originally posted by GinoJ
My heart is full of gayety, I am happily married for 2 years but my wife does not want a kid. That disrupts my gayety.

Why do young women are against having kids nowadays?

Discuss.

Dump her and knock up someone else. Or multiple someone elses. Bonus points if at least one of the mothers is her sister.

Nothing on this earth would make her more jealous.