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Originally posted by 7ate9
Forget the scientology here, as I'm more interested in his marriage.

I'm starting this thread as a side-branch to Mo the Ped. Obviously what is seen to happen with people like dirty old American/English men living in playboy mansions seems wrong... Married/having viagra helped sex with 20 odd year old women. What about Mr. Cruise? I think the age gap is som ...[text shortened]... stop people like dirty old men trying to give fantasies of love to spring-chickens? What age?
I think that the general idea is that when someone becomes an adult, they are able to make their own decisions. Sometimes it sounds pretty dodgy, perhaps it is, but it's their choice.

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Originally posted by 7ate9


I don't think it's right for huge age gaps like 80 & 20.
Something can be a bad idea without being morally wrong. It is certainly imprudent for a healthy, emotionally mature 30 yr. old to look for an 18 yr. old mate. Have you spoken with any 18 yr. olds recently? They're barely people! What with the poor fashion sense and bad music. Seriously, though, you are only beginning to become at 18 the adult you will be.

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Originally posted by 7ate9
Like murder, speeding, sex with under-age children...

I don't think it's right for huge age gaps like 80 & 20.
Murder is the initiation of force against another. Two people deciding to get married is not.

Speeding can be seen to be an objective threat and is down to the proeprty owners to set the conditions. Privately owned race tracks have no speed restrictions. No paralell can be drawn to two (or three, or more) consenting adults getting married.

Young people do not have the ability to yet make informed decisions, an age of consent must unfortunately be drawn in the sand. IMHO 20 years old is well over that line. Not a paralell.

There's a hole pile of things I don't think are 'right' but until it comes to the initiation of force or threats of force or fraud, it's none of mine or your business.

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Originally posted by 7ate9
LOL, pretty much my thoughts... yet later in life it could/would be acceptable?

I think it would be morally wrong for a 30-year old men to go out specifically looking for an 18-year old women.
Why morally wrong rather than merely dumb and kind of pathetic?

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Originally posted by 7ate9
LOL, pretty much my thoughts... yet later in life it could/would be acceptable?

I think it would be morally wrong for a 30-year old men to go out specifically looking for an 18-year old women.
What happens when two people meet discover they like each other and then find out they have a great age difference. What should they do then?

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Originally posted by 7ate9
Well, that's an important question. You're spot on and kind of why I started this thread. There has to be a point where it is acceptable or not acceptable. If it's beyond socially accepted, 'right' then I guess you'd have to do the right thing and so no... or not. If it became law, then you'd have to say no or be a criminal.

I think laws should be made for ...[text shortened]... would become right.

[I just want to hear people's views on what would be acceptable]
No way! Let people do what they want. Who are you to tell people who they can and can't marry?

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Originally posted by HumeA
I think that the general idea is that when someone becomes an adult, they are able to make their own decisions. Sometimes it sounds pretty dodgy, perhaps it is, but it's their choice.
Oh, there you go makin' sense again!😀

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Originally posted by bbarr
Have you spoken with any 18 yr. olds recently? They're barely people! What with the poor fashion sense and bad music. Seriously, though, you are only beginning to become at 18 the adult you will be.
princeoforange is around 16, isn't he?

Seems to love Beethoven, though. So maybe he is redeemable.

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Originally posted by 7ate9
Forget the scientology here, as I'm more interested in his marriage.

I'm starting this thread as a side-branch to Mo the Ped. Obviously what is seen to happen with people like dirty old American/English men living in playboy mansions seems wrong... Married/having viagra helped sex with 20 odd year old women. What about Mr. Cruise? I think the age gap is som ...[text shortened]... stop people like dirty old men trying to give fantasies of love to spring-chickens? What age?
A 49 yr old relative of mine recently married a 31 year old lady.

They have lived together for a number of years and seem quite happy.

He looks 'young' to many. No kids involved on either side.

I think, like the curvature of bananas (EU bureaucrats take note), this may be one of those things that, once the parties reach adulthood, does not call for regulation...

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