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I have been following a post in the MS forum. A guy is having a tough time, and asks when is enough enough? he wanted to know if he should just give up.
Oregon has assisted suicide, and from what I understand some cases are indeed MS patients who are tired of the battle.
I'm not in his shoes, and it's hard to speak for someone. The answers I read were pretty much split, some would stating if it gets too hard, they'll quit, while others say no way, think of your family.
I would take the second recommendation. I think I would want my kids to see the fight in me, and remember their dad didn't quit... but I'm not in a position where I have to think that way, and may not be.
when ever I have had several bad days, the sun has always came back for me, and I'm happy to be here.
any thoughts on this one?

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chronic pain management and depression management and all that.

medical marijuana?

LSD? cary grant used to take it before it was made illegal. he really liked it. i guess someone who is not going to be driving and who can avoid or have managed bad trips may have reason to try it. don't know if it's legal in any country, though.

i remember a long time ago reading that there are several variables related to heart function, such that if they all entered a certain region (think a multidimensional graph), the heart would stop. possibly this was new info then, and explained why some hearts mysteriously stopped.

so sometimes i think there is a similar region for suicidal people. everything hits a bad point and they just go for it.

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and .... don't forget sunshine vs. cabin fever.

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When I was a very young man, deep into drugs and alcohol, I had a period where I was very low. I held a knife blade to my wrist many times and came close.

Being there and not ending it makes me think that I wouldn't do it. Especially being married so long and with three kids and two grandkids.

Getting married probably saved my life.

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Originally posted by Hugh Glass
would you take your own life?... any thoughts on this one?
I think Oregon has got it right.

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Originally posted by FMF
I think Oregon has got it right.
Ya, I think it should be an option for those who need it.
I hope none of us ever reach that point

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Originally posted by zeeblebot
and .... don't forget sunshine vs. cabin fever.
Lol,, my hell,, to be snow bound in a tent with FMF,, having to constantly look up words in my dictionary
:-(

But I'd have my own ways to mess wit his head too...:-)

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after a few weeks FMF'd probably start looking pretty good.

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and by then you wouldn't mind the smell (guessing here that a snowbound tent wouldn't be equipped with a shower).

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Originally posted by FMF
I think Oregon has got it right.
Agreed.

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Originally posted by Hugh Glass
I have been following a post in the MS forum. A guy is having a tough time, and asks when is enough enough? he wanted to know if he should just give up.
Oregon has assisted suicide, and from what I understand some cases are indeed MS patients who are tired of the battle.
I'm not in his shoes, and it's hard to speak for someone. The answers I read were p ...[text shortened]... the sun has always came back for me, and I'm happy to be here.
any thoughts on this one?
A tough one indeed. If I were in his shoes, and the pain got too bad, I'd be looking for a way to end it, anyway I could.

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Originally posted by badmoon
When I was a very young man, deep into drugs and alcohol, I had a period where I was very low. I held a knife blade to my wrist many times and came close.

Being there and not ending it makes me think that I wouldn't do it. Especially being married so long and with three kids and two grandkids.

Getting married probably saved my life.
I can relate to that,,,,

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Suicide of healthy individuals appals me. But then, so do many healthy individuals...

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Originally posted by Hugh Glass
I have been following a post in the MS forum. A guy is having a tough time, and asks when is enough enough? he wanted to know if he should just give up.
Oregon has assisted suicide, and from what I understand some cases are indeed MS patients who are tired of the battle.
I'm not in his shoes, and it's hard to speak for someone. The answers I read were p ...[text shortened]... the sun has always came back for me, and I'm happy to be here.
any thoughts on this one?
We don't live for ourselves.

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Originally posted by FreakyKBH
We don't live for ourselves.
Speak for yourself.