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My four favourite character traits in women are : (not in any particular order)

Modesty
Candidness
Kindness
Originality


Andre

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Originally posted by Adsum
My four favourite character traits in women are : (not in any particular order)

Modesty
Candidness
Kindness
Originality


Andre
The first 3 are in stark contrast to one another.

Consider revising.

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You're joking with me right? Why shouldn't they differentiate from one another? Or are you saying that a kind person cannot be modest?

Andre

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Originally posted by Adsum
You're joking with me right? Why shouldn't they differentiate from one another? Or are you saying that a kind person cannot be modest?

Andre
you can be neither kind nor modest when the situation calls for true candidness in the opposite direction.

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I disagree, but do you want to pick your 4 anyway?

Andre

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Originally posted by Adsum
My four favourite character traits in women are : (not in any particular order)

Modesty
Candidness
Kindness
Originality


Andre
I am glad you said "women" because young ladies nowadays have not been brought up to display these qualities....though there may be a few around. The years can smooth down some rough edges and produce a woman of worth if she has the right building blocks.

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by "women" I included young ladies...between 16 and 70 let's say. For more repressive countries let's make it between 18 and 70.

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Originally posted by ale1552
I am glad you said "women" because young ladies nowadays have not been brought up to display these qualities....though there may be a few around. The years can smooth down some rough edges and produce a woman of worth if she has the right building blocks.
I would rather that all people be brought up to be true to themselves and respectful of themselves and others.

I loathe the idea that a proper "lady" or "woman of worth" is so generally narrowly defined and that those definitions are designed to keep a woman quiet and unchallenging.

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Originally posted by Mimor
I would rather that all people be brought up to be true to themselves and respectful of themselves and others.

I loathe the idea that a proper "lady" or "woman of worth" is so generally narrowly defined and that those definitions are designed to keep a woman quiet and unchallenging.
Andre was giving the qualities that HE wants to see in a woman. Other men may see it differently.

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Originally posted by ale1552
I am glad you said "women" because young ladies nowadays have not been brought up to display these qualities....though there may be a few around. The years can smooth down some rough edges and produce a woman of worth if she has the right building blocks.
Is that 'all' of the 850 million females under 18 - or are you stereotyping 😀

What shall we do with the women not of worth? Perhaps a mass grave. How dare they not conform!

To contribute to the posters idea...
1) Compassion
2) Sense of humour
3) Independent of mind
4) Articulate

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I like big butts and I can not lie
You other brothers can't deny
That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist
And a round thing in your face
You get sprung
Wanna pull up tough
Cuz you notice that butt was stuffed
Deep in the jeans she's wearing
I'm hooked and I can't stop staring


Originally posted by ale1552
Andre was giving the qualities that HE wants to see in a woman. Other men may see it differently.
And a proper woman will not give a damn what he or any other men require in a woman. She will be who she is and will be pleased if someone comes along who loves her just as she is and will be just fine if no one does.

She will not conform to or require others to conform to a stupid little laundry list of characteristics in order to be "acceptable" as a partner.

Women have traditionally had the burden of having to be enough -pretty enough, thin enough, feminine enough, quiet enough, etc - in order to attract a man because she's been taught that that is what she's good for. It's oppressive.

So some guy coming along with his little list of how a woman should be to qualify as someone attractive to him, needs to shut it.

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Originally posted by Adsum
My four favourite character traits in women are : (not in any particular order)

Modesty
Candidness
Kindness
Originality


Andre
Sounds really boring. Don't mean to offend.

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Originally posted by Mimor
And a proper woman will not give a damn what he or any other men require in a woman. She will be who she is and will be pleased if someone comes along who loves her just as she is and will be just fine if no one does.

She will not conform to or require others to conform to a stupid little laundry list of characteristics in order to be "acceptable" as a par ...[text shortened]... le list of how a woman should be to qualify as someone attractive to him, needs to shut it.
Word to ya mother.

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Originally posted by Mimor
And a proper woman will not give a damn what he or any other men require in a woman. She will be who she is and will be pleased if someone comes along who loves her just as she is and will be just fine if no one does.

She will not conform to or require others to conform to a stupid little laundry list of characteristics in order to be "acceptable" as a par ...[text shortened]... le list of how a woman should be to qualify as someone attractive to him, needs to shut it.
He's not allowed to have preferences or is he not allowed to list them?