The way I see it, if she is already grooving on you (She thinks i'm amazing ), the first time you give it to her, she is gonna think that it is love and your problems will only get more involved. At 10 months, I see a little post-partum depression lingering. She is looking for someone to cling to. My advice- if she isn't up to your standards, don't settle.
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundFake your death. Assuming of course that you can move your job to another city. Write an obituary and submit it to a local paper. Then if you ever decide to go back to her, you can claim it wasn't actually you since they never found the body. You get miracle points then as well.
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
That would still be fun even if this weren't about a girl.
I reckon you should stay away, women with kids can be pretty clingy and next thing you know after you've shagged her, she 'll be wanting to move in with you.
The way to go is simply to ignore her, tell her you're really busy these days and don't return her calls, she'll get tired of waiting.
Alternatively when she comes round to your place, leave a bottle of anti-crab lotion in view, that should do the trick.
Originally posted by reader1107as a woman i agree here tell her she reminds you of a sister, because even though she said she understands about you not taking to the kid factor she is lying, we all do it to cover our hurt... no matter what men say women seem to intrupret it differently... so back off dont go down the sex path especially if your not attracted to her... god men you guys can be pigs hahaha
She has a 10-month-old. Assuming it was the result of a consensual act, you know that she's fertile and doesn't use birth control. You would need to provide your own, unless you plan to pay child support for 18+ years. You also might want to know that while for many men, sex implies that there's another person in the room, for many women sex implies a ...[text shortened]... want to end the relationship now so that she can find the man she so richly deserves, etc.