Originally posted by BlackampI'm guessing she left out a qualifier.
when else are you going to tell them? when they hold a seance?
"is it wrong to tell people while you are alive what you want?"
she probably left off "when you die", as in final disposition of your body, if you want a funeral, who should be there, etc.
The only other way you could convey your final wishes would be in your will. In fact, I would suggest putting it there, since you cannot always rely on people to carry out your final wishes for whatever personal reasons they might have. Nothing wrong with telling your loved ones your wishes, but to be sure, put it in writing.
Originally posted by SuzianneAbsolutely. I left in my will specific instructions about how I want to be cremated then beheaded.
I'm guessing she left out a qualifier.
"is it wrong to tell people while you are alive what you want?"
she probably left off "when you die", as in final disposition of your body, if you want a funeral, who should be there, etc.
The only other way you could convey your final wishes would be in your will. In fact, I would suggest putting it there, s ...[text shortened]... Nothing wrong with telling your loved ones your wishes, but to be sure, put it in writing.
Originally posted by Raven69Well, if you really want me to say that I could, as a last request from you, even if it would be telling a little white lie.
As in,
"Who is that?"
"Oh, that's just one of the many people I drove to suicide with my blatant disregard for reason and logic."
???
I would sooner say it was one the top women chess players in Canada.
I understand they are playing this weekend in Ontario, it is mixed both men and women, but the women are playing for a spot on the Olympic 2010 team, if I heard it correctly. I was multi tasking at the time. 😉
Originally posted by Very RustyYou heard correct.
Well, if you really want me to say that I could, as a last request from you, even if it would be telling a little white lie.
I would sooner say it was one the top women chess players in Canada.
I understand they are playing this weekend in Ontario, it is mixed both men and women, but the women are playing for a spot on the Olympic 2010 team, if I heard it correctly. I was multi tasking at the time. 😉