why the heck are you trying to find guys on a chess site???
If you're trying to find a date, try one of those online flirt thingies, at least you find guys that live in your area there... as it happens, there are virtually no german players in that age group here... at least not that I know of. All the cute guys happen to live in the middle of nowhere, this town called... "London", I think it was (right, Freddie, Liam, Matt and the other cute guys at the meetup?) š
Anyway, you're wasting your time here if you're just looking for guys.
-Angie