22 Sep 20
@petewxyz said🙄
In the past I was never home in the morning. So I discover that the seat I think of as 'my seat' gets the sun shining straight in my eyes in the morning. Then I realise that I have a seat I think of as 'my seat'. This is a frightening life stage. 😆
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22 Sep 20
@petewxyz saidEveryone has a temporal spot they like to call their own.
In the past I was never home in the morning. So I discover that the seat I think of as 'my seat' gets the sun shining straight in my eyes in the morning. Then I realise that I have a seat I think of as 'my seat'. This is a frightening life stage. 😆
It's the permanent spot you want to avoid.
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22 Sep 20
@petewxyz saidNot only do I have a 'my seat' I have a 'my seat' that contains a 'my indentation.'
In the past I was never home in the morning. So I discover that the seat I think of as 'my seat' gets the sun shining straight in my eyes in the morning. Then I realise that I have a seat I think of as 'my seat'. This is a frightening life stage. 😆
22 Sep 20
@petewxyz saidI think many of us have a seat in the house that we consider our own. I hadn't even thought about it until you mentioned it.
In the past I was never home in the morning. So I discover that the seat I think of as 'my seat' gets the sun shining straight in my eyes in the morning. Then I realise that I have a seat I think of as 'my seat'. This is a frightening life stage. 😆
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22 Sep 20
@ghost-of-a-duke saidMost people keep those in a glass by their bed allegedly. 😁
Not only do I have a 'my seat' I have a 'my seat' that contains a 'my indentation.'
23 Sep 20
@very-rusty saidI can just picture a family sitting down together at the kitchen table without having their firm places. My father, for one, would be very upset, mother wouldn't mind so much. 🙂
I think many of us have a seat in the house that we consider our own. I hadn't even thought about it until you mentioned it.
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23 Sep 20
@torunn saidWe have one particular cat who is always found in 'my seat'. So if this suggests it is a territorial thing what does that say about humans? Particularly if it is males who are more bothered about it, although I am not sure about that as I have seen my wife ask one of our daughters to shift from the seat that she considers to be hers.
I can just picture a family sitting down together at the kitchen table without having their firm places. My father, for one, would be very upset, mother wouldn't mind so much. 🙂
23 Sep 20
@petewxyz saidThat might suggest that the difference is individual.
We have one particular cat who is always found in 'my seat'. So if this suggests it is a territorial thing what does that say about humans? Particularly if it is males who are more bothered about it, although I am not sure about that as I have seen my wife ask one of our daughters to shift from the seat that she considers to be hers.
23 Sep 20
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I don't think that it is a gender/sex Thing. I changed my place on the table several times over the years while my wife still occupies the seat she has chosen when we moved into the house...
23 Sep 20
@petewxyz saidMy wife, daughters and I all have our own seats at the breakfast table,
In the past I was never home in the morning. So I discover that the seat I think of as 'my seat' gets the sun shining straight in my eyes in the morning. Then I realise that I have a seat I think of as 'my seat'. This is a frightening life stage. 😆
dinner table and tv room. It's not that any seat is better than any
other is just ones "territory" where it's comfortable. It was the same when
I was young. ... I thought this was normal!? (Oh and the car too)