19 Dec 04
It all depends on the level of "attachment" that is still there. If you do not want to revive the relationship, and yet still have feelings of *attachment* to him/her, then best to stay away until those feelings are no longer there. But if you've "moved on" in your feelings, and you are quite sure he or she has as well, then there is a potential for a friendship. Sometimes ex-lovers can make excellent friends.
Alas, once the relationship ends all too often we never see them again...
23 Dec 04
Originally posted by MetamorphosisThanks . Well said. But the question is " What makes your ex to pick up the phone and dial your number?" I f like I am another person they would think that they are giving you false hopes or false interpretation>
It all depends on the level of "attachment" that is still there. If you do not want to revive the relationship, and yet still have feelings of *attachment* to him/her, then best to stay away until those feelings are no longer there. But if you've "moved on" in your feelings, and you are quite sure he or she has as well, then there is a potential f ...[text shortened]... excellent friends.
Alas, once the relationship ends all too often we never see them again...