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I'm the third of 4, so I'm perfect. 😛

However, it seems the joys of a middle child contain some consistency.
My elder brother, being number 1, was pig headed for many a year before he finally settled. The baby, youngest sister, was always sucking for attention and probably still does in some way.

Seems there's no concerns for our middle kids, as we know they'll just grow up fine and will ignore the living hells they all create. But I wonder if there is a way to shift first and last child to the middle trait, to make it easier all around.

Where do you come in your sibling rank? Does it pertain to my observations; were you the elder, bully but levelled out; the last, centre of attention baby; middle, placid dream child? 😛


1st born and obviously better for it 😛


Originally posted by mikelom
I'm the third of 4, so I'm perfect. 😛

However, it seems the joys of a middle child contain some consistency.
My elder brother, being number 1, was pig headed for many a year before he finally settled. The baby, youngest sister, was always sucking for attention and probably still does in some way.

Seems there's no concerns for our middle kids, as we k ...[text shortened]... , bully but levelled out; the last, centre of attention baby; middle, placid dream child? 😛
Marcia! Marcia! Marcia!

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Originally posted by mikelom
I'm the third of 4, so I'm perfect. 😛

However, it seems the joys of a middle child contain some consistency.
My elder brother, being number 1, was pig headed for many a year before he finally settled. The baby, youngest sister, was always sucking for attention and probably still does in some way.

Seems there's no concerns for our middle kids, as we k ...[text shortened]... , bully but levelled out; the last, centre of attention baby; middle, placid dream child? 😛
I'll show you the joy of a middle... finger.

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Originally posted by Seitse
I'll show you the joy of a middle... finger.
Polite as ever. You'll get over it one day. 😉

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I was the first of 3, we were all about 5 years apart. My brother the middle, sister the last.
Of course I had the most restrictions, and ended up rebelling the most....
Dad wasn't as hard on my brother and by the time my sister was a teen, she pretty much had free reign ... Guess it all evens out in the end 🙂

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I'm the first-born child, the first-born grandchild, and the first-born great-grandchild: No. 1 all the way, except in chess!

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Originally posted by lolaink
I was the first of 3, we were all about 5 years apart. My brother the middle, sister the last.
Of course I had the most restrictions, and ended up rebelling the most....
Dad wasn't as hard on my brother and by the time my sister was a teen, she pretty much had free reign ... Guess it all evens out in the end 🙂
why is it that the oldest get the most restrictions?
when i look at the age my little borther and sister are right now i had way less freedom!🙁

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Originally posted by Lukerik
1st born and obviously better for it 😛
1st born, also, although the benefits sometimes seem mixed if not dubious. Thankfully received much more justified discipline growing up.



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Originally posted by mikelom
Polite as ever. You'll get over it one day. 😉
Like your alcoholism?

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Originally posted by Seitse
Like your alcoholism?
Whatever you may decide to write on this site about me has no dent at all in my real life. I am way above you.

Continue to try to insult me as you do daily, if it so be your wish. You have much more minimal effect upon me than you may like to believe.

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Originally posted by AttilaTheHorn
I'm the first-born child, the first-born grandchild, and the first-born great-grandchild: No. 1 all the way, except in chess!
Ditto 😀😀😀😞

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Originally posted by mikelom
Whatever you may decide to write on this site about me has no dent at all in my real life. I am way above you.

Continue to try to insult me as you do daily, if it so be your wish. You have much more minimal effect upon me than you may like to believe.
Great, so I guess your past tantrums originated by being a wife beater and a lost boozer were all jokes.

Maybe you were joking as well regarding your fantastic record as a big shot entrepreneur.

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Originally posted by Seitse
Great, so I guess your past tantrums originated by being a wife beater and a lost boozer were all jokes.

Maybe you were joking as well regarding your fantastic record as a big shot entrepreneur.
For me to indulge in with an easy life, and for you to ponder and only dream about.

If you really want to waste your time worrying about me, please try to do it quietly; you're disturbing my thread run.. 😉