I've come to realize that in posting sometimes what I think are jokes others take seriously and vice versa. This often leads to little forum spats between people which could have been avoided with a little understanding and courtesy. So I'm offering up this thread to people who would like to say something to someone who they've maybe done wrong and would like to rectify it. It's good for the soul and it makes for great karma.
I'll even go first: dfm65, I did go to forum wars and post stuff about you. I was still angry from our little spat and tried to let out some steam. I realize that it was inappropriate and childish and I just want to apologize. also, i noticed that you like sunn 0))). so do i. so we actually have something in common. we both like droning heavy metal which makes you feel like a druid. if you like sunn 0))), you should check out stuff by Earth which features former Melvins Joe Preston. Cheers.
Originally posted by darvlayi too have noticed that we share some musical tastes - in fact Sunn O))) are touring the UK this month, and i hope to see them in Leeds. I've been trying to buy Earth 2 for a while, but can't find someone who stocks it - will probably get it off Amazon next time - Sunn O))) is at least partially conceived as an Earth tribute i believe.
I've come to realize that in posting sometimes what I think are jokes others take seriously and vice versa. This often leads to little forum spats between people which could have been avoided with a little understanding and courtesy. So I'm offering up this thread to people who would like to say something to someone who they've maybe done wrong and woul ...[text shortened]... nn 0))), you should check out stuff by Earth which features former Melvins Joe Preston. Cheers.
i take my share of responsibility for our little argument - i think i reacted in an over-sensitive way to something you posted which probably wasn't meant to be taken the way i took it, and it just escalated from there. partly i guess i was sensitive to what you posted in the 'offensive username' debates, which at that time was quite recent. also, i kind of goaded you on to angrier and angrier responses, rather than cooling down the situation, which would have been the more responsible course to take. So i apologise for all of that.
To rehash the original source of misunderstanding between us - usernames - i don't think our positions are as far apart as they appeared. i was just aware that there were kids on this site, and the name 'andreilikeslittleboy' disturbed me a bit. you are right to say that we adults should not be bothered by names like Toilet Boy and so on, but i think i was right in saying that people should perhaps refrain from this if they think it might offend a reasonable person, just out of consideration.
peace
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Originally posted by dfm65*rolls her eyes and gives cookies to BOTH darvlay and dfm65, secretly thinking "Men!!!!"
this is like some bad teen movie or something: I was the one who first suggested 'Burying the hatchet'. ME dammit! ME ME ME! But then the other guy gets all the credit from the chick. probably cookies as well:'(😛🙄
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