The “You don’t know me” paradox

@fmf said
Actually, the meaning of your scornful banter is not difficult to discern.

That you attempt to make your declarations acceptable is at the very root of your gaslighting.

One person's obvious fact is another's "scornful banter". Your choice of adjectives condemns you.

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In my 19 years here I've only seen one other poster try so hard to direct the opinions of other users here.

Guess who that is.

@suzianne said
In my 19 years here I've only seen one other poster try so hard to direct the opinions of other users here.

Guess who that is.

My guess would be fmf? 🙂

Yes, I noticed you been here 5 years longer than the gooster.

I told him a few times now he should try and direct some of that energy working on his game. 🙂


-VR

@fmf said
I think divegeester is a far better poster than you in every way. Starts more threads. Provides more content. Has a sharper sense of humour. A more fully rounded and more balanced and more emotionally intelligent poster. I don't think you are equal to him at all.

And he agrees with you. That's the reason he wins your award.

The rest is clearly more gaslighting, an attempt to direct the opinion of others.

@very-rusty said
My guess would be the gooster? 🙂

Yes, I noticed you been here 5 years longer than the gooster.

-VR

One other poster besides him.


🙄

@suzianne said
One other poster besides him.


🙄

Yes, see my edit! 🙂

They are so much alike you could pass them off as twins even their Chess Ratings are very close. 🙂

-VR

@fmf said
Actually, the meaning of your scornful banter is not difficult to discern.

No, I mean, of course, the real meaning of most things I say, but most specifically these latest threads about psychology. Like the stories you tell about me in order to direct the opinions of others, you almost never get it right. You're more out of touch than my grandfather, and he's not even with us anymore.

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Why do you continue using a word (projection) when either you 1) don't know what it means, or 2) are trying to direct others into thinking I'm doing that, when I have no reason to do that. You're nothing like me. If I were going to be 'projecting' my personality onto you, it would involve compliments, not insults. I don't do the nasty attacks on others in this forum like you do. And yet you claim I do. Who's 'projecting' now?

@suzianne said
Your choice of adjectives condemns you.

No it doesn't. My choice of adjectives makes what I am saying very clear.

@suzianne said
The rest is clearly more gaslighting, an attempt to direct the opinion of others.

It's my opinion. You asked me for it. You asked me if I thought you were his equal. I don't think you are. So I explained why. You see something more sinister going on with my answer?

@suzianne said
You're more out of touch than my grandfather, and he's not even with us anymore.

Gosh. I'm not sure it's right for you to be bringing family members into this.

@suzianne said
If I were going to be 'projecting' my personality onto you, it would involve compliments, not insults. I don't do the nasty attacks on others in this forum like you do. And yet you claim I do.

So, what all this boils down to is you simply cannot accept anyone having [or expressing] an unfavourable opinion about you, right?