Originally posted by wucky3homosexuals as well!
what do you mean from both sides of the pitch..?
i have a friend (this is sounding sooooooooo like pinnedhorse...) that is apparently getting a lot of attention. which i didn't relise until last night. except most of this attention comes from -well- other guys...
he's stopped wearing tight leather and PVC trousers, but they keep comming!!!
Chill. These things happen. It's never going to be a problem unless he allows it to be. That means he has to trust himself. I'll take a wild stab that the contention is mainly from the homosexual interest: if he has the emotional and sexual security to cope, take it as a compliment. If he doesn't, why not? What is he worried about?
Pestering by a given individual is another matter regardless of gender. That is irritating and uncalled for. "I'm not interested, please go away" is the type of response needed there. But wait till its consistant before any "go away" line is used. People can be hurt by any rejection.
All gay folk I've ever met seem to be unfazed by a no-apologies "I'm straight". Only two have ever kept up the 'hunt', putting themselves into the pestering lobby.
Originally posted by ToeUnless the problem is that he gets attention only from gay guys and not girls in which case he has to look at his hair style, dress, etc.
These things happen. It's never going to be a problem unless he allows it to be.
I met an american girl last year who apparently played a game called "gay or european" with her friends.
Apparently, if a guy's watch matches his belt he is gay, or european. There were other rules as well.