Rilo Kiley -- "A Better Son/Daughter"
EDIT Now it's "At My Funeral" by the Crash Test Dummies. I'm making someone a mix. I am the birthday present ninja.
EDIT I just noticed that the aforesaid "Funeral" is prefaced by the Libertines' "Death on the Stairs" and TMBG's "Dead". All this death. Oh my goth.