Originally posted by mokkoya, when i was at the daycare i always looked after jackson (2) and mitchelle was a newborn, one day i was away and jackson decided to lock himself in the bathroom because he was mad i wasn't there....... needless to say he made quite a mess 😉 -------- and i regards to presents, got a starbucks barista (which is really a family gift since made coffes for them all day) as well as some books i wanted and two sweaters because it is COLD up the mountain where i go to school 😉
Going through that right now. My youngest is 2.....and wonderfully terrible 😀
I love how they are so determined to do and try everything.
Originally posted by indigodreamI took every course there was when my older girls were babies. 🙂
oh, and mokko, i've taken alot of child pyschology course in preparation for teaching --- so if you ever have any questions that you can't find in a typical book, let me know 😉😀😀😀😀
It's mainly common sense really. and each and every child is soooo different. So don't rely too much on those books. 😉
Originally posted by mokkotrue true ----and i must admit that reading formulas about parent-seperation anxiety really didn't help too much when the moms left them at the daycare, just lots of time and effort...but i don't have any children of my own - will be a long while before that happens
I took every course there was when my older girls were babies. 🙂
It's mainly common sense really. and each and every child is soooo different. So don't rely too much on those books. 😉
mokko --- did you have a good christmas? i am most likely going to bed in a few mins since i have to be at the gym for 10 for 2 hours; but lately i've been waking up in the middle of the night, and i usually play chess till tired enough to go back to bed, so will be online later if i don't cath your response right now 😀😀😀😀
Originally posted by indigodreamIt's been a nice quiet day. 🙂 I've rather enjoyed myself. Having a tea and heating up some leftovers now. 😀
mokko --- did you have a good christmas? i am most likely going to bed in a few mins since i have to be at the gym for 10 for 2 hours; but lately i've been waking up in the middle of the night, and i usually play chess till tired enough to go back to bed, so will be online later if i don't cath your response right now 😀😀😀😀
Getting a head start on making the nice list again next year 😉
excellent! i think in order to make the nice list i need to be more patient....... i have been wanting to get my slippers, necklace etc. back from a friend and its been hard waiting for the person to contact me because i want my stuff back; not so much because i want it but more because i'm trying hard not to crush on the person, and if i have my stuff back i can cut him out, but as long as he has my stuff theres a connection; i've decided though that the material items aren't that important so worse comes to worse i'll get it all when he gets back from hawaii---i'm an open person but when i'm hurt i like to not neccessarily run; but shut off emotions; i know its a bad defense mechanism; trying to work on it
Originally posted by indigodreamJust let the things go. They're replacable. The value of your heart however isn't.
excellent! i think in order to make the nice list i need to be more patient....... i have been wanting to get my slippers, necklace etc. back from a friend and its been hard waiting for the person to contact me because i want my stuff back; not so much because i want it but more because i'm trying hard not to crush on the person, and if i have my stuff b ...[text shortened]... arily run; but shut off emotions; i know its a bad defense mechanism; trying to work on it
And shutting down is the worst way to deal with things. Take it from me....the longer you do it the more it will hurt later. :'(
i know, its not like there was even a fight...... more just an absence of communication --- its not like we were dating, we were just friends....... i just get mad at myself for caring; when i should be more cautious, especially becuase i've been cautious for so long, but lets continue this conversation in the new thread 😉 lol
and its not even like we hung out that much, just a week really, meh, it was just refreshing to hang with a quality guy - whatever, i dont' care, its not like i knew him that well n e ways; and hes going to be gone for 6 months, i know its not good, but just want to harden myself and focus on other things ------- by the way mokko, keep on getting confused about what forums we're talking in 😉 lol