Originally posted by mokkoPampering a man is one thing. What you described is well above and beyond the call of duty. But hey, who am I to argue? If that's the way you truly feel and act, you should have no problem landing a man.
Not so. I have always gone the extra mile for any man in my life. I love the feeling it gives me to pamper a man with love and affection. And honey, if after three children I'm still not over 100lbs I don't think bon bons will have much effect either. 😉
Originally posted by darvlayThere lies the problem. There isn't a man around who is worthy of all the sweet loving I have to offer. 😏
Pampering a man is one thing. What you described is well above and beyond the call of duty. But hey, who am I to argue? If that's the way you truly feel and act, you should have no problem landing a man.
Actually men and women want the same thing. Intimacy. Everyone defines it differently. Yes there are patterns (men vs. women) but honestly, everyone has their own definition.
The key is finding someone who defines it the same as you (or at least as close as possible). Some compromise in other areas is always necessary - but make the intimacy connection - the rest of it seems much less important.
Originally posted by mokkothe reason I prefer to live in asia is fully explained above.. i.e. western woman have absolutely no idea.
Hey, I want to take a stab at this one and you can all bark about it amongst yourselves.
I think men want a women who praises them, makes them feel like some sort of comic book hero. Who appreciates all the little things that only her man can do. And repays his heroics with tenderness and affection. A woman who will spend the whole movie rubbing her fingers ...[text shortened]... ll ever need he has in her. Anywhere even close or is it all about the wham bam thank you mam.
Originally posted by mokkoWhen I get home, my wife is waiting for me. As I walk through the door, she always asks, "What would you like first? Tea, food, sake, beer, hot bath or sex?"
So clue me in big boy. 😉
It's normal here for women to treat their husbands like that.
Japanese men are expected to have girlfriends, so their wives can have a few nights off every month (...)
My wife once told me why she didn't want to have a baby:
"I don't want to get fat, then lose my figure afterwards.
I don't want to go through the hormone changes.
I don't want to stop working, and give up my career.
I don't want to go through the pain, morning sickness, etc.
I don't want to have to look after a baby, a child.
I know you want children, so you should find someone else to have your babies..."
Yup, Western women haven't got the foggiest idea what men really want, or how to teeat them properly.
(No, I'm not a chauvanist, but I'm happy with my situation...)
Originally posted by c99uxAny man I ever had came home to the same, supper on the table, beer in hand, a nice back rub to relive the stresses of a hard day at work (even though I worked just as hard) and anyone who says no to great sex is insane (the trick is to have a guy who makes it great) The only difference I can note is that there is going to be NO other women! I don't think that makes western women clueless in the least. Ever hear of STD's? If you're trying to get some girlfriend pregnant outside of a marriage I would asume you would be having unprotected sex. No man is worth dying for. Or even get a yeast infection over for that matter. Most women I know are very affectionate and derive alot of pleasure from bestowing that affection on an appreciative man. But God help that man if he seeks affection elsewhere.
When I get home, my wife is waiting for me. As I walk through the door, she always asks, "What would you like first? Tea, food, sake, beer, hot bath or sex?"
It's normal here for women to treat their husbands like that.
Japanese men are expected to have girlfriends, so their wives can have a few nights off every month (...)
My wife once told me why she did ...[text shortened]... t them properly.
(No, I'm not a chauvanist, but I'm happy with my situation...)
Originally posted by mokkoHoly hell.
Any man I ever had came home to the same, supper on the table, beer in hand, a nice back rub to relive the stresses of a hard day at work (even though I worked just as hard) and anyone who says no to great sex is insane (the trick is to have a guy who makes it great) The only difference I can note is that there is going to be NO other women! I don't think that ...[text shortened]... that affection on an appreciative man. But God help that man if he seeks affection elsewhere.
Why do I always end up with hard-core feminists???
Life is unfair.
Originally posted by shavixmirLol, I am a hard core femminist. Doesn't make me any less of a woman. Just because I believe in equal rights of women doesn't mean that I'm uncaring or unaffectionate to the man I love. Mabye it's just the mother in me but I enjoy playing the care taker role. I get pleasure from giving pleasure. I think that every woman has some of this nurturing quality about her. A woman will do anything for a man that is willing to move mountains for her.
Holy hell.
Why do I always end up with hard-core feminists???
Life is unfair.
Originally posted by Loose ScrewLOL! No, this isn't an all nighter again! I've just got baby down and I'm enjoying some quiet time with my cup of tea and them I'm off to bed. 😴
Mokko, are you going to make this an allnighter again?
Try to get some rest, your kids deserve a mother who had a good night sleep. 😴
😳 Please, see this as some good advice, nothing more. 🙂
Originally posted by mokkoMhmmmm...
Lol, I am a hard core femminist. Doesn't make me any less of a woman. Just because I believe in equal rights of women doesn't mean that I'm uncaring or unaffectionate to the man I love. Mabye it's just the mother in me but I enjoy playing the care taker role. I get pleasure from giving pleasure. I think that every woman has some of this nurturing quality about her. A woman will do anything for a man that is willing to move mountains for her.
Maybe I'm just lazy then.