Originally posted by Grampy BobbyActually using discipline as a form of motivation is the old school way of parenting. It is psychologically shown to motivate to not do bad things but it doesn't motivate to do good things. It can even keep you away from doing good things! 😲
Your parents ever take the time to discipline you?
Ex: you have a child who likes to play in the toilet. Every time he does this you slap his hand and tell him, "no no!" now when you go to potty train him it will be much harder because he thinks that being around the toilet is a "no no" so the best form of motivation is a reward based system. If you refrain from getting mad when your child does something bad and reward them when they do something good they WILL stop doing the bad things and start doing good things. Its simple. Kids seek attention so they do whatever is needed to get attention.
Originally posted by tomtom232Using discipline is ok as long as it is not too harsh and delivered in a timely fashion. You also have to make sure the kid knows exactly what he is being disciplined for.
Actually using discipline as a form of motivation is the old school way of parenting. It is psychologically shown to motivate to not do bad things but it doesn't motivate to do good things. It can even keep you away from doing good things! 😲
Ex: you have a child who likes to play in the toilet. Every time he does this you slap his hand and tell him, "n ...[text shortened]... ood things. Its simple. Kids seek attention so they do whatever is needed to get attention.
Originally posted by Raven69It seems like bad drugs, so probably a good thing he is not sharing.
Are you saying Palynka has drugs and is not sharing?
Perhaps he is thinking of his fellow man....OH and Woman of course. 😉
I call you woman but think of you as a girl, weird how the mind works huh...LOL...I know I leave myself wide open for shots with that statement. 😉
Originally posted by Very RustyAnd it would be a crime not to take one of the shots.
It seems like bad drugs, so probably a good thing he is not sharing.
Perhaps he is thinking of his fellow man....OH and Woman of course. 😉
I call you woman but think of you as a girl, weird how the mind works huh...LOL...I know I leave myself wide open for shots with that statement. 😉
You mean your mind actually "works"?
Originally posted by Grampy BobbyLuxury! We had to get up 3 hours before we went to bed, lick the road clean before breakfast, for a ha'penny a lifetime. You young whippersnappers don't know what discipline is!
What if Bobby was banned?
As a child growing up in New England he got spanked big time before Sunday Dinners for lighting caps off with his thumb in church and for
carving his initials in the sacred wood of pews, and his mouth washed out with Lifebuoy and Lava Soap on many occasions for being good.
😀