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is being with another girl cheating my ex thinks so but i don't

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Originally posted by outbackjill
is being with another girl cheating my ex thinks so but i don't
The question is a little confusing cause I thought you were a girl... ?

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Originally posted by arrakis
The question is a little confusing cause I thought you were a girl... ?
i am a girl who was dating a guy who got with a girl is it considered cheating i didn't think so considering i offered him to join in but he didn't

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Originally posted by outbackjill
is being with another girl cheating my ex thinks so but i don't
I like to think that I have enthusiastically committed almost every possible perversion at one point or another with minimal regard for myself or others. Still, I'd have to say if you've decided to be in a committed, monogamous relationship messing around with anyone male or female is a violation of a trust. If you have a prior agreement so be it, but, you owe it to your partner to be honest. I still don't think anyone should get married before 25 and preferably not until 30. Have fun, mess around and find what makes you happy, settle into a relationship only if you can truly say your doing it for the right reasons and not just because the rents cheaper or you're too lazy to buy a second toothbrush for your lovers pad.

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Originally posted by outbackjill
i am a girl who was dating a guy who got with a girl is it considered cheating i didn't think so considering i offered him to join in but he didn't
Ohhhhhh... well sweetie, some guys are funny like that. So you're bi, and your ex was not into sexual relationships other than one-to-one.

There is nothing wrong with either of you - you just have different appetites (or should I say different needs?).

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Originally posted by outbackjill
is being with another girl cheating my ex thinks so but i don't
I wholeheartedly encourage this behaviour.

<----- See look even my avatar is looking lecherous.

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Originally posted by XanthosNZ
I wholeheartedly encourage this behaviour.

<----- See look even my avatar is looking lecherous.
I swear I saw a lewd smile.

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Originally posted by outbackjill
i am a girl who was dating a guy who got with a girl is it considered cheating i didn't think so considering i offered him to join in but he didn't
i know many a man who would say
"Yes, but i dont care" - they would however have been peeved should they have not have had the offer to participate though.

i suppose at the end of the day it is cheating.

daniel

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is being with another girl cheating my ex thinks so but i don'tl
It's obviously cheating if you didn't talk to him before you did it.

However, if you let him watch it's not cheating, it's a blessing!

Edit: If you offered him to join you, then's it's not cheating, it's called dating a loser.

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I think we're missing the point, regardless of who joined in, watched etc. or what sexuality each was, if they didn't know about it prior to the event, then it was cheating. Regardless of what floats your boat, you should always be honest and up front about it.

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Originally posted by Starrman
I think we're missing the point, regardless of who joined in, watched etc. or what sexuality each was, if they didn't know about it prior to the event, then it was cheating. Regardless of what floats your boat, you should always be honest and up front about it.
But she did offer him to join in...

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Originally posted by Palynka
But she did offer him to join in...
If it was after he found out what was going on, then it matters little, his trust has already been betrayed.

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argh - if you r with another person while you r still dating another person - YOUR R CHEATING ok - just grow up - then the brain sells will start helping you think clearly ok.

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Originally posted by Nicolaas
argh - if you r with another person while you r still dating another person - YOUR R CHEATING ok - just grow up - then the brain sells will start helping you think clearly ok.
Not necessarily. If both parties are open-minded and don't mind sharing then that's not cheating.

It's all about respect and being open up front, as HoH said.

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Originally posted by darvlay
Not necessarily. If both parties are open-minded and don't mind sharing then that's not cheating.

It's all about respect and being open up front, as HoH said.
You spelled Ho' wrong.

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