18 Jul 05
Why are people mad at me? No, obviously I don't mean the people who I've deliberately offended...
At the moment, there are at least 2 people ignoring me without any reason I can see. One has stopped moving for ages in our games (but moves in other games), and both are ignoring my PMs. It sux because I considered both of them pretty good freinds... I don't want to post their names here, I don't even really want your help, I just want someone to say something along the lines of "It's ok, I'm sure it's not your fault, etc. blablabla".
Please? I kinda feel bad, probably because I don't even know what I did...
Angie
18 Jul 05
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Originally posted by angie88It`s okay its not your fault...
Why are people mad at me? No, obviously I don't mean the people who I've deliberately offended...
At the moment, there are at least 2 people ignoring me without any reason I can see. One has stopped moving for ages in our games (but mov ...[text shortened]... el bad, probably because I don't even know what I did...
Angie
maybe thier computers are down and they can`t reply?
18 Jul 05
Originally posted by PauliePaulie is it you upsetting Angie? cos if it is .... am not going into the word asscociation thread with you anymore....😛
I don`t 😀
Angie if they choose to ignore your pm's but are still moving then either finish up the games and let them get on with ignoring you ..or just dont take it personally ...we humans are an odd breed...
18 Jul 05
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Originally posted by ChakanYou forgot "etc. blablabla" 😉
It`s okay its not your fault...
maybe thier computers are down and they can`t reply?
There can be many reasons why they don't play or reply. They may be sick, they may be on holidays (although it would have been polite to put the flag up), the computer may be down, the connection may be down, they may have some personal crisis which needs their full attention, etc. blablabla. Or they could be mad at you. But that's just one of many possible reasons.
Edit: Oops, I guess I missed the "move in other games" part... That limits the possible reasons somewhat... But they could find your games especially difficult (I often move in easier games and wait with more difficult ones), or they might want to write something meaningful to you, but need more time for that, so they wait with your games until they know what to say (been there, done that).
18 Jul 05
Originally posted by fiestawell one has at least moved in our game...
Paulie is it you upsetting Angie? cos if it is .... am not going into the word asscociation thread with you anymore....😛
Angie if they choose to ignore your pm's but are still moving then either finish up the games and let them get on with ignoring you ..or just dont take it personally ...we humans are an odd breed...
the other one is what's really bugging me. I can handle a person being mad at me, I'd just like to know why.
18 Jul 05
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Originally posted by angie88Just go on about your business . You're a sweetheart . If they are mad about something but can't get up the gumption to talk to you about it directly then the problem is their's and not your's .
Why are people mad at me? No, obviously I don't mean the people who I've deliberately offended...
At the moment, there are at least 2 people ignoring me without any reason I can see. One has stopped moving for ages in our games (but mov ...[text shortened]... el bad, probably because I don't even know what I did...
Angie
18 Jul 05
Originally posted by Nordlyswell since I've been ignored, one has been moving, although that person could have had a reason not to move in our game as quickly.
You forgot "etc. blablabla" 😉
There can be many reasons why they don't play or reply. They may be sick, they may be on holidays (although it would have been polite to put the flag up), the computer may be down, the connection may be down, they may have some personal crisis which needs their full attention, etc. blablabla. Or they could be mad at you. But that's just one of many possible reasons.
But... the other one keeps posting in the foriúms etc.
So neither are offline 🙁
but thanks for the support guys (and girls 😀)
18 Jul 05
Originally posted by angie88see they havent fallen out with you after all Angie.... lol you just need to go get a drink chill out and chat to us in the forums ..
well one has at least moved in our game...
the other one is what's really bugging me. I can handle a person being mad at me, I'd just like to know why.
18 Jul 05
Originally posted by angie88I was a bit too quick... See my edit.
well since I've been ignored, one has been moving, although that person could have had a reason not to move in our game as quickly.
But... the other one keeps posting in the foriúms etc.
So neither are offline 🙁
but thanks for the support guys (and girls 😀)
18 Jul 05
Originally posted by angie88Well if i were you, i`d just sit back and then time their a$$es out 😉
well since I've been ignored, one has been moving, although that person could have had a reason not to move in our game as quickly.
But... the other one keeps posting in the foriúms etc.
So neither are offline 🙁
but thanks for the support guys (and girls 😀)
18 Jul 05
Originally posted by angie88ok...my bad....just realised one of the people is me 😳.
Why are people mad at me? No, obviously I don't mean the people who I've deliberately offended...
At the moment, there are at least 2 people ignoring me without any reason I can see. One has stopped moving for ages in our games (but moves in other games), and both are ignoring my PMs. It sux because I considered both of them pretty good freinds... I don ...[text shortened]... ablabla".
Please? I kinda feel bad, probably because I don't even know what I did...
Angie
to be honest I can't explain why I didn't move in our game angie...i just didn't, I wasn't ignoring you, and I didn't get a PM from you in the last week so 😕
fred