trouble starting games, Russ?

Both my friend and I have had trouble starting games in the last two days. We make a challenge and fill out the parameters, push go and it sends opponent a game that can't be moved.
Again, I challenge with white, the opponent sees a game waiting that hasn't been opened. ??????
My friend is redqueen.

>> My friend is redqueen.

But you are redqueen?? 🙄

-Russ

Russ, Sometimes I go over to my friends house or she comes here and we play together at one tube. She logs out, then I log in, etc. I sent the string question from her station inadvertantly, thus the mystery of Who I am...
But, still the problem. She tried to start a game but aparently the opponent never got the challenge. And I did the same thing (from my own station). I got no answere either.
Redqueen challenged Pulsatilla. I am typing this from my tube but on redqueens site just because we are together here.
Nespa?