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I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she was up late (i work nights, hence the blind date thing), and heres the dilema....
She's not my type. She is a good person and all, but i find her unattractive. She thinks i'm amazing (she must be blind too), and i think that my chances of bedding her are greatier than the chances of an England supporter being stabbed in Frankfurt next week, What do i do??
She now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundThese are all simple answers, but it is a simple problem.
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
You told her the truth so don't feel bad about humping her and then leaving her. It's not like you would do it under the promise of something more.
How to dump her is quite easy, actually: Tell her in English.
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundTell her you have to cancel your date because you need to spend time with your friend on your chess website who is going through a rough time. She will never try to contact you again.
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundWhat the!!!
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
Maybe you should treat her like an adult who can make up her own mind and look after herself. You said you quite liked chatting so chat. If she really comes on to you and you don't fancy it say you don't fancy it. If you do, then do it, it won't mean you have to spend the rest of your life with her. Maybe she just fancies a bit of company and maybe a bit of sex.
Just be honest, be yourself and treat her like an adult.
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundTry the honest approach. Tell her you are only in it for the sex. I am sure will get you dumped first. Problem solved.
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundKeep her sweet with the whole 'lets just be friends' thing and then give her a booty call when you're feeling frisky.
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
If she starts getting to love-dovey and close jsut use the age old 'fear of commitment' excuse.
Originally posted by huckleberry houndmake a clean break. if you are known as a male tart then that's the sort of sheila you will end up with. have respect for yourself and not be a slave to your urges as animals are. also watch out for std and leaving a child without a dad. worst still is the prospect of abortion.
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped numbers before we met, and text for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid was in my immediate gameplan (especially someone else's), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she wa ...[text shortened]... ow has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundShe has a 10-month-old. Assuming it was the result of a consensual act, you know that she's fertile and doesn't use birth control. You would need to provide your own, unless you plan to pay child support for 18+ years. You also might want to know that while for many men, sex implies that there's another person in the room, for many women sex implies a there's a relationship between the two people. She could also be a potential stalker.
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
Best advice: Tell her she's nice, but she reminds you too much of your sister (or some such excuse if you feel one is needed) and you respect her enough that you want to end the relationship now so that she can find the man she so richly deserves, etc.
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Originally posted by sasquatch672Methinks you're letting the paranoia take over.
Ditch her. If she's not your type now, she's not going to become your type. And I think it's nuts that a single mother with a 10-month-old is out there dating. You don't know her well, so you don't know what she's looking for. A man to support her? Is the other father still around? What's he like? Is he jealous, is he paying child support? Why a or at least the judgment to use birth control.
No way dude. Cut her loose.
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundMake 'er walk the plank. Arrrrrrrrr.....
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??
Originally posted by huckleberryhoundBe very clear that you're not looking for a long term relationship and then tag that ass.... hard.
I was set up with this girl on a blind date, right. we swapped nombers before we met, and txt'd for a while, and she seemed ok, but she's got a 10 month old kid. I told her that a kid wasnt in my immediate gameplan (especially someone elses), and she said she understood. . . .cool.
she asked one night if she could come meet me at my work as she w ...[text shortened]... now has my phone number and knows where i work. How do i dump her, and do i hump her first??