Originally posted by wormwood
my best advice is: 3 losses in a row == "wormwood whom you are following has disconnected."
when things go bad, they're not gonna improve by staying at it. instead it's just gonna get worse. for one reason or another, your brain's not up to it. so take a break, cut your losses and live to fight another day.
(obvious nobody follows me, but disconnectio ...[text shortened]... most of the big boys seem to do. you'll almost never catch them with a 3+ losing streak.)
I disagree to an extent.
This reminds me of what a very strong pool player told me once. Pool is a game where some days you can do no wrong, you are completely in stroke, can't miss a ball and can't miss shape. The next day you can't make a ball if someone leaves the ball in the pocket for you-these are the days which make the good players good.
Anyone can win when you are making everything and can do no wrong. But, what makes the good players grerat is they can fight through those tough days. They don't fire at balls that they can't make ON THAT DAY. They play a more solid/defensive game, try and reduce their mistakes and allow the opponent to make the key mistakes.
Sometimes it even happens that after playing solidly(on one of these not so good days) you are forced to play an offensive shot(like kicking at a ball to make it). You see that ball go in and suddenly it isn't one of your bad days.
The bad days are mostly about confidence.
While in pool there is obviously a physical component the mental aspect is possibly even greater. So the point being when you are having a bad day it is good to learn how to fight through it(maybe you aren't as sharp tactically. So maybe you can play a little more solid on this day). But, once you have completely mentally lost it(ie thoughts like might as well give up-even though your position isn't necessarily lost) and are just beating yourself up it is time to call it a day.
Kasparov talked about his first shot at the title (against karpov)and how he was warned how different it was. He heard it but didn't understand it. When he got into the match the difference he finally understood was how much resilience karpov had.
Starting to understand my long winded point? You have to train resilience.