Originally posted by Suzianne It only seems that way. The ones who are obnoxious are obnoxious for different reasons, and only a few are completely incorrigible. Luckily, most can be made to be at least a little bit less obnoxious. Remember that it is mainly a defensive reaction to avoid seeming vulnerable, and if you can get them to see that being vulnerable is not entirely a bad th ...[text shortened]... he overall obnoxiousness factor. Good luck, though... it's an uphill struggle all the way. ๐
Originally posted by Zelinda i have a question for men and women out there. are all boyz obnoxtious? i have only met a few who are decent. are they? this is a very important question.
surely the fact that you have met afew decent ones, answers your own question.
Originally posted by Zelinda like i said. i think you are an ass, and i could not care less what you say.
You go, girl, lol...
Notice that it is all the "boyz" here being the obnoxious ones? Hehe... as I'm sure you know, they are even more obnoxious in a group because they are all trying to look "cool" to one another (or at the very least, trying NOT to look too "uncool" ). You do have a few choices here... you can decide to fight fire with fire and be obnoxious back, hoping to knock them down a peg or two, or you can just ignore the most obnoxious ones. Don't try talking to any one of them with too much honesty or emotion, though, because they'll only blow that back in your face, because amongst "boyz", showing any emotion or vulnerability is part of that "looking uncool" thing they hate. Because of this, you might have some success one-on-one with them. The "boyz" are generally much less obnoxious once you get them away from other "boyz"... hehe... Good luck, hun... ๐
Originally posted by Suzianne You go, girl, lol...
Notice that it is all the "boyz" here being the obnoxious ones? Hehe... as I'm sure you know, they are even more obnoxious in a group because they are all trying to look "cool" to one another (or at the very least, trying NOT to look too "uncool" ). You do have a few choices here... you can decide to fight fire with fire and be obn ...[text shortened]... xious once you get them away from other "boyz"... hehe... Good luck, hun... ๐
One of you "girlz" go and put the kettle on, there's a love
Originally posted by Suzianne You go, girl, lol...
Notice that it is all the "boyz" here being the obnoxious ones? Hehe... as I'm sure you know, they are even more obnoxious in a group because they are all trying to look "cool" to one another (or at the very least, trying NOT to look too "uncool" ). You do have a few choices here... you can decide to fight fire with fire and be obn ...[text shortened]... xious once you get them away from other "boyz"... hehe... Good luck, hun... ๐
Originally posted by Suzianne You go, girl, lol...
Notice that it is all the "boyz" here being the obnoxious ones? Hehe... as I'm sure you know, they are even more obnoxious in a group because they are all trying to look "cool" to one another (or at the very least, trying NOT to look too "uncool" ). You do have a few choices here... you can decide to fight fire with fire and be obn ...[text shortened]... xious once you get them away from other "boyz"... hehe... Good luck, hun... ๐