Originally posted by Khanas a correspondence chess site this is not seen as a big deal for most but it you really want something like this then take a look at Thread 53170.
On another chess-gaming Site I see that they have a special arrangement when your opponent has moved. (www.gameknot.com) When you play your move, You can select Wait For Your Turn and it automatically refreshes the page when the opponent has moved. I think this site can be improved alot by this thing.
I checked GameKnot and I know that is quite slow and does ...[text shortened]... s compared to RHP but I think their autorefresh command is quite nice.