@divegeester
This last exchange, with you admitting you used the 'on the spectrum' thing as an intended insult totally blows your 'every day use of the word' defence out of the water. If it was intended as an insult then it was weaponised.
The post that was quoted here has been removedThere's no spin, only understandable squirming on your part. You clearly said you were insulting me by saying it is like communicating with someone on the spectrum. - That is only an insult if you believe communicating with someone on the spectrum is a bad thing. Period.