Originally posted by Palynka
[b]If someone thinks that getting into the zone is a fluke—then it will be for them.
Nicely put. I guess you put it more diplomatically than I did (not surprisingly 🙂) but I think we actually have similar views. The difference being that it works for you, but not for me.
When I was younger, I used to play basketball for a club. Many players had ...[text shortened]... us post. Or tried not to. I appreciate the subjectiveness of that line of thought.[/b]
I am not sure I know what this "zone" stuff means - I am guessing it's about something similar as that state of mind this thread is about? Anyway, not being sure what it means I can't comment on it either, but there were some things you said later that caught my attention:
Thinking about it, this is actually very close to the concept of faith. If you have it, you'll feel and understand the divine, because you're predisposed to it. But for those that do not have the same faith belief, then believers' descriptions of their divine experiences are meaningless to you.
That occurred to me earlier as well. It can be terribly frustrating when you try to understand what someone else is talking about, and all you get is "if you try it, you'll know what I mean" (and if you then go on to say that you have tried, but still don't know, you'll get "maybe you didn't try enough" or "maybe you tried it the wrong way" or something like that). The problem is that there are things you can't describe in words, numbers or diagrams. What's interesting is that we still try, and that those who have had a similar experience will usually recognise this even though the words can't really describe the experience. As much as I hate it when people who have a faith I don't share start using their "Secret Decoder Ring", it may not always be avoidable.
I find dichotomy essential to language and, therefore, essential to thought.
While this rings true for me personally as I am a very verbal thinker, the second part doesn't necessarily follow from the first one. Thought doesn't always take the form of language (it does for me most of the time, but not always; and for some people it rarely does at all). Other forms of thought may not have the same need for dichotomy.
As I said earlier in this thread, I am not willing to give up dualism. My thinking is, and probably always will be, very analytical and based in dualism. I learn by analysis and logical thought. During "zen moments", I wouldn't say that I think - at least not in the way I usually understand the word - or learn. I may think
about them or learn
from them later, but while I am in that state of mind, it's pure experience or being. (Interestingly, I have to use dualism to describe this, and I experience it almost as two different worlds - the dualism between dualism and non-dualism.) It's deeply meaningful for myself on a personal level, but I wouldn't claim that it's meaningful beyond that; although if it happens in music therapy, I do believe it is meaningful for the person I am working with as well, and observers can often see the difference in the quality of the contact.
Many years ago I read a book by Mihály Csíkszentmihályi (which is a very cool name) called "The Flow Experience" (not sure if that's the exact English title, I read it in German) which I found very interesting. I haven't read much about zen, but I think he's talking about the same state of mind. But (as far as I remember) he doesn't attempt to use language to express non-dualism; he rather describes the phenomenon and when, how and why it occurs. It may be more accessible to dualistic thinkers, although of course it won't give you the experience either.