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This thread i would like to see peoples opinions on abortion and why they think its good or bad. i personally agree with abortion but do not think it should be use as a contraceptive alternative. Some peoples religion and feeling are oposite to mine, so i would like to know what you peeps think.
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Originally posted by purclecow
This thread i would like to see peoples opinions on abortion and why they think its good or bad. i personally agree with abortion but do not think it should be use as a contraceptive alternative. Some peoples religion and feeling are oposite to mine, so i would like to know what you peeps think.
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Abortion is wrong except where the mother's life is in danger and an emergency abortion is needed. It is wrong and unconscionable, in my opinion, to use it simply because one chooses not to have a baby for whatever reason other than medically emergent ones: i.e. birth control, change of heart, disrupt college plans, etc... While I do respect the mother's right to do with her body as she sees fit, it ceases to be just "her" body when a baby is growing in her womb...I know...maybe I sound prudish and so 20th century, and a woman should be able to kill her unborn baby if she wants to...but you asked...

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Originally posted by chancremechanic
Abortion is wrong except where the mother's life is in danger and an emergency abortion is needed. It is wrong and unconscionable, in my opinion, to use it simply because one chooses not to have a baby for whatever reason other than medically emergent ones: i.e. birth control, change of heart, disrupt college plans, etc... While I do respect the mo ...[text shortened]... h century, and a woman should be able to kill her unborn baby if she wants to...but you asked...
is it wrong to abort if a woman is raped and ends up pregnant with the rapists baby?

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As in the huge debate between pcaspian and bbar, i will make a distinction between three types of pregnancy, plus a special situation in wich i don't have an answer ready;

1) Pregnancy without concensus of the woman.
2) Pregnancy with consensus of the woman, and the sex was intended for pregnancy
3) Pregnancy with consensus of the woman, and the sex was not intended for pregnancy.
4) The life of the woman is in danger for some reason, when near-birth

Case 1; I feel that abortion is admittable in this case, in the VERY EARLY stages of pregnancy. If the fetus is developped too far i find it wrong to abort that child. Pregnancy tests will indicate pregnancy, and with that the woman will know early enough to abort the pregnancy. If the woman doesn't take a test, then abortion is wrong. No test; no abortion.

Case 2; No abortion. You choose to have a child, you give birth to it and take your responsibilities (this applies to the father as well!)

Case 3; Same as Case 1, abortion is admittable in the VERY EARLY stages of pregnancy. If the fetus is developped too much, it's wrong to end that life. Again, tests will show if the woman is pregnant or not. By not taking a test, the woman consents to perhaps having a child. No test; no abortion. Also, if the precautions taken were inadequate; no abortion. Only in the case of a true accident will abortion be admittable in some cases.

Case 4; I have no idea...both the child and the mother have an equal right to live (remember; the child didn't choose to be conceived! It is not the child's fault to be there!).

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Originally posted by purclecow
is it wrong to abort if a woman is raped and ends up pregnant with the rapists baby?
This where it gets very controversial...I don't have an answer for you....part of me says that no abortion should be performed...the baby should be given up for adoption due to the terrible circumstances of conception, but I'm not a woman in this situation so I could not imagine the psychological condition to even consider an answer....

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Well, if you want my views, I follow Buddha's.

He says that the moment the sperm meets the ovum is the moment a mind leaves the bardo state (the bardo state is the state at which the mind has left the body of it's previous life and is waiting to be placed in another body. A mind can be in bardo for anywhere up to about 49 days) and enters a body. By performing an abortion, the mind re-enters bardo, and you have just killed a living being.

Of course, while the baby is in the womb it does not have the gross awareness that we do outside the womb. The mind is subtle when we are in our mothers wombs, and the more subtle our mind, the less we can remember. As we develop awareness of our senses, our mind becomes less subtle and we can remember a lot more. This is why we cannot remember the bardo state or being born (or previous lives), simply because our mind was too subtle. When we dream our mind is also fairly subtle, but not as subtle as when we experience deep sleep, which is why sometimes it is hard to remember dreams.

Whoops, kinda trailed off there...

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Originally posted by DreamlaX
Well, if you want my views, I follow Buddha's.

He says that the moment the sperm meets the ovum is the moment a mind leaves the bardo state (the bardo state is the state at which the mind has left the body of it's previous life and is waiting to be placed in another body. A mind can be in bardo for anywhere up to about 49 days) and enters a body. By pe ...[text shortened]... eep, which is why sometimes it is hard to remember dreams.

Whoops, kinda trailed off there...
I like this view of life 🙂

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Its her body and she would have to look the child, therefoe she can abort if she wants.

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Originally posted by chancremechanic
Abortion is wrong except where the mother's life is in danger and an emergency abortion is needed. It is wrong and unconscionable, in my opinion, to use it simply because one chooses not to have a baby for whatever reason other than medically emergent ones: i.e. birth control, change of heart, disrupt college plans, etc... While I do respect the mo ...[text shortened]... h century, and a woman should be able to kill her unborn baby if she wants to...but you asked...
And what about women who give birth to children they don't want and abandon them, or misstreat them? Not to mention very poor couples who have as many children as "God demands"and put them through hunger and cold...

Personally I agree with abortion to a certain extent-I think a woman/couple should only bring a child into this world when that child is trully wanted. Otherwise, the child will suffer later and so will the parents. Besides, I make the difference between a child when it's born and two cells.

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The argument from Rape and Incest is often used in the abortion debate by Pro-Choicers. It is also often used by Bbarr in order to be able to negatively lable his opponents as being "stupid", "ignorant", "religiously insane", "monstrous" or whatever comes to his mind at that moment. The fallacy of "Attack ad Hominem".

The Argument from Rape and Incest.

A woman who becomes pregnant due to an act of either rape or incest is the victim of a horribly violent and morally reprehensible crime. Although pregnancy as a result of either rape or incest is extremely rare, there is no getting around the fact that pregnancy does occur in some instances. Bioethicist Andrew Varga summarizes the argument from rape and incest in the following way:

It is argued that in these tragic cases the great value of the mental health of a woman who becomes pregnant as a result of rape or incest can best be safe-guarded by abortion. It is also said that a pregnancy caused by rape or incest is the result of a grave injustice and that the victim should not be obliged to carry the fetus to viability. This would keep reminding her for nine months of the violence committed against her and would just increase her mental anguish. It is reasoned that the value of the woman's mental health is greater than the value of the fetus. In addition, it is maintained that the fetus is an aggressor against the woman's integrity and personal life; it is only just and morally defensible to repel an aggressor even by killing him if that is the only way to defend personal and human values. It is concluded, then, that abortion is justified in these cases.

Despite its forceful appeal to our sympathies, there are several problems with this argument. First, it is not relevant to the case for abortion on demand, the position defended by the popular pro-choice movement. This position states that a woman has a right to have an abortion for any reason she prefers during the entire nine months of pregnancy, whether it be for gender-selection, convenience, or rape. To argue for abortion on demand from the hard cases of rape and incest is like trying to argue for the elimination of traffic laws from the fact that one might have to violate some of them in rare circumstances, such as when one's spouse or child needs to be rushed to the hospital. Proving an exception does not establish a general rule.


Second, the unborn entity is not an aggressor when its presence does not endanger its mother's life (as in the case of a tubal pregnancy). It is the rapist who is the aggressor. The unborn entity is just as much an innocent victim as its mother. Hence, abortion cannot be justified on the basis that the unborn is an aggressor.

Third, this argument begs the question by assuming that the unborn is not fully human. For if the unborn is fully human, then we must weigh the relieving of the woman's mental suffering against the right-to-life of an innocent human being. And homicide of another is never justified to relieve one of emotional distress. Although such a judgment is indeed anguishing, we must not forget that the same innocent unborn entity that the career-oriented woman will abort in order to avoid interference with a job promotion is biologically and morally indistinguishable from the unborn entity that results from an act of rape or incest. And since abortion for career advancement cannot be justified if the unborn entity is fully human, abortion cannot be justified in the cases of rape and incest. In both cases abortion results in the death of an innocent human life. As Dr. Bernard Nathanson has written, "The unwanted pregnancy flows biologically from the sexual act, but not morally from it." Hence, this argument, is successful only if the unborn are not fully human.

Some pro-choice advocates claim that the pro-lifer lacks compassion, since the pro-lifer's position on rape and incest forces a woman to carry her baby against her will. Nothing could be further from the truth. It is the rapist who has already forced this woman to carry a child, not the pro-lifer. The pro-life advocate wants to prevent another innocent human being (the unborn entity) from being the victim of a violent and morally reprehensible act (abortion), for two wrongs do not make a right. As theologian and ethicist Dr. Michael Bauman has observed: "A child does not lose its right to life simply because its father or its mother was a sexual criminal or a deviant."

Furthermore, the anguish and psychic suffering caused by rape and incest has been treated quite effectively. Professor Stephen Krason points out that "psychological studies have shown that, when given the proper support, most pregnant rape victims progressively change their attitudes about their unborn child from something repulsive to someone who is innocent and uniquely worthwhile." The pro-life advocate believes that help should be given to the rape victim "to make it as easy as possible for her to give up her baby for adoption, if she desires. Dealing with the woman pregnant from rape, then, can be an opportunity for us -- both as individuals and society -- to develop true understanding and charity. Is it not better to try to develop these virtues than to countenance an ethic of destruction as the solution?"



So far the Argument for Rape and Incest.

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Originally posted by ivanhoe
The argument from Rape and Incest is often used in the abortion debate by Pro-Choicers. It is also often used by Bbarr in order to be able to negatively lable his opponents as being "stupid", "ignorant", "religiously insane", "monstrous" or whatever comes to his mind at that moment. The fallacy of "Attack ad Hominem".

The Argument from Rape an ...[text shortened]... e an ethic of destruction as the solution?"



So far the Argument for Rape and Incest.
It's a woman's body. End of story Ivanhoe.

If she wants to slit her wrists, it's up to her.
If she wants to masturbate, it's up to her.
If she wants to smoke pot, it's up to her.
And ultimately, if she wants rid of a foetus, you can't stop her! It's up to her.

No morality. No good or bad. It's up to her.
Now, if she doesn't want an abortion, she shouldn't be forced to have one. If you and your wife don't want an abortion, good for you.
To be perfectly honest, I don't think I'd want my girlfriend to abort.
BUT...

Let me put that just a little bit stronger:

BBBBBBBBUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT:
If she wants to...it's her body....

Argument closed as far as I'm concerned.

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Originally posted by purclecow
is it wrong to abort if a woman is raped and ends up pregnant with the rapists baby?
In my opinion I think that if the woman has no intentions of getting pregnant and she is quite young (eg 18 or under) then it is ok to abort the baby and it would be even better if it was aborted in the early stages.

A baby can destroy a young girls life. If the young girl brings up the baby with no job then the quality of life for the baby isn't very good. if the mother is stuggling to make ends meet then this can have deverstating effects on both the girl and the baby. If you look at todays society you will see that most poor people are forced into dealling drugs and commiting crime.

If the baby is aborted however, it may be dead but if you think about it, if the child was brought up with a life of crime then the child is already dead...inside.

If the woman is older and had a stable income then I would frown upon aborting the baby even more but I think it is her decision. If she has a job then maybe she could have supported the baby.

If the woman is aborting tha baby with the intention of getting pregnant I think that it is totally wrong. It may be her body but she should not be allowed to abort. She should have thought more about having a baby.

Now i think that if the woman is RAPED and she aborts that is totally fine. The woman may be suffering due to this ordeal and the woman has every right to abort the baby as she did not choose to have sex did she? The womans life should not be destroyed because some guy wants to have a few pleasures. Her life may already be falling apart.

I think though that the morel of this argument is learn how to use contraception and then use it wisely! Be sensible and grown up about sex. Babys aren't just toys they are human beings too.

Love lilmissnaughty xx😀

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Originally posted by shavixmir
It's a woman's body. End of story Ivanhoe.

If she wants to slit her wrists, it's up to her.
If she wants to masturbate, it's up to her.
If she wants to smoke pot, it's up to her.
And ultimately, if she wants rid of a foetus, you can't stop her! It's up to her.

No morality. No good or bad. It's up to her.
Now, if she doesn't want an ab ...[text shortened]... TTTTTTTTTT:
If she wants to...it's her body....

Argument closed as far as I'm concerned.
Shavix; "Argument closed as far as I'm concerned"

.... except for the fact that it is NOT her body, it's someone elses body.

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Shavix: "To be perfectly honest, I don't think I'd want my girlfriend to abort. ... "

Now thàt is something you should investigate. What is the reason for you not wanting that ?

Wouldn't it be weird if we were going to live by morals we do not agree with but we were simply forced (talking about freedom) to accept these with a, in my view fallacious, reference to the autonomy of the other ?

What are the reasons for not wanting your girlfriend to abort ?
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I think i have to agree with ivanhoe there. I think that some people just don't have consideration for anyone else and choose to just look after number one. Now the woman cutting herself up is something totally different there. That is nothing to do with someone having a small person alive inside of you. I think the woman doesn't need an abortion but needs some help! How can u possibly refer to abortions with someone cutting themself? That's repulsive

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Originally posted by ivanhoe
Shavix; "Argument closed as far as I'm concerned"

.... except for the fact that it is NOT her body, it's someone elses body.

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Shavix: "To be perfectly honest, I don't think I'd want my girlfriend to abort. ... "

Now thàt is something you should investigate. What is the reason for you not wanting that ?

Wouldn't it be weird if we were ...[text shortened]... e autonomy of the other ?

What are the reasons for not wanting your girlfriend to abort ?
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If a woman is pregnant and she kills herself. Does the foetus live or die?
It dies.
Until it is born it is an integral part of the female's anatomy.

End of bloody story. I'm sorry, I've carried this argument a million times, and I'm sick of going into details.
I couldn't care less if it felt pain, read the bible or was a miniture film critic. If a woman wants rid of it...it's up to her.

As for why I don't think I'd want my girlfriend to abort: We use contraception. If she's pregnant, I want to see what comes out so I can track down the father and shoot him.

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