@Arkturos said
You first. 😉
But as you might know, sometimes the wounded healer is the best healer (or maybe a wounded healer could be a better-than-average healer -- something like that seems more realistic).
You don't need to be perfectly healed from whatever traumas and slings and arrows you might have suffered so far, but could you perhaps consider not being a source of those to ...[text shortened]... ent, but now I'm glad you didn't, because otherwise I probably wouldn't have written this very post.
More from the biggest Hypocrite in these forums.