Child Molester getting child support

Well here is my story and I don't think I can be helped but would like to somehow get a law passed. I am going to try to make this as short as I can if more info is needed I am willing to tell just ask.

At 12yr I was given to a 16yr boy. Back then when you did not come to school because you are pregnant they did not push the issue. Well I spent 17 very horrifying years with this man. He was mentally and fiscally abusive.

I lost my first baby at the age of 14 he lived only 9 hours. This was in 1977 in 1978 we were married because I was pregnant again. On July 1, 1979 I had a son on May 2, 1980 I had a girl and on June 25, 1981 I had another son. This had to stop (I was hoping) so when the doctors said I had fibroid tumors in one ovary in 1981 I would not let the just take one they had to take the whole thing.

In 1990 he decided he no longer wanted me around but told me if I took the kids he would kill me. I felt very strongly that he was not lying. He had shot at me before and if it had not been for a person standing beside him hitting his arm I would be dead. Well my lawyer said that I had to sign the papers or the judge would not grant the divorce. But the papers said I had to pay $50 a week child support and I tried to refuse but my lawyer and that creep talked me into it (what a fool I was). The creep said I would not have to pay and my lawyer agreed it was just something they had to put in the divorce to get the judge to grant it.

I wanted away from this person more than life itself. I had already tried to kill myself to get out but I did not take enough pills.

Well after the divorce he still chased me around and made me do unspeakable things even after he remarried. I had had enough I filled my car with as much personal items as I could and with a full tank and $25 I headed to Oklahoma to live with my dad. In Oklahoma. I meet the most wonderful man in the world and we eventually were married and came back to Indiana.

In about 1994 he sent the youngest son to live with me with no paperwork on the child support just sent me the boy. It was one of the happiest days of my life but in around 1995 it really hit the fan.

He had been molesting my daughter every since I left in 1990. Well he went to prison for 15yr (or it was suppose to be he got out in 7 1/2 for good behavior.

My daughter went to Charter a mental institute and he went to prison. My oldest son was in boys school because his dad (the creep) turned him in for having a gun.

By the way did I mention that the creep was a Marion County Special Deputy? He had a lot of stroke in Indianaplois Indiana. Well it took me almost a year and a ton of money to finally get my daughter out of the institute.

In the mean time no judge ever stopped the child support I was to pay on the original divorce.

When he got out (the creep) of prision just to show the kids that he still could make me do what he wanted he sued me for back child support and WON.

Now when he went to prison I talked to several lawyers about the child support issue but they all said because he was in jail I could not do anything. When he got out I talked to several lawyers and they said I could not do anything because the kids were over 18.

So here I am paying this creep that molested my daughter and mental/physically abused me for 17yr. $216 a month.

Okay I can deal with that but I would like to get a law passed to stop this kind of injustices from happening to someone else. There is no way this can be right. I would like to get a law passed that says that if any person male or female molests a child and goes to prison over it (showing it had to be true)would have no rights to any back or exiting child support or even any kind of State or Government funds.

I thought when you went to prison you lost all right any way. You can imagine my surprise when the judge said I had to pay.

Well this is my story can anyone help? Or have any advice?

Are you trying to claim the judge gave you no rights of visitation? Why, if your daughter was being molested, didn't you know about it?

You are asking for advice on a chess site forum you have just joined? You expect that advice will be, what ---better than advice from a barrister?

When I began reading your post I didn't think the case would be about you...I sympathize withyou and really don't know what else to say.

I'm really sorry. That is a terrible story. Like I said, I don't know what else to say but I felt I had to at least say that.

Give us some more info so we can arrange to have his testicles removed with a rusty razor blade.

i guessed at first that your story was set in a 3rd world country, it sounds like it. theres something wrong with the whole nightmare, have you been brought up in a strange subculture as a victim of some sort? i'm not trained in any way to advise people on stuff like that, but if i were you i'd get the hell out of that life youve been living and start over as far away as possible.

Originally posted by eamon o
i guessed at first that your story was set in a 3rd world country, it sounds like it. theres something wrong with the whole nightmare, have you been brought up in a strange subculture as a victim of some sort? i'm not trained in any way to advise people on stuff like that, but if i were you i'd get the hell out of that life youve been living and start over as far away as possible.

Originally posted by tweetylove
... fiscally abusive...

Well I love chess is why I joined. I am not very good at it but I have no one to play with so I thought I could get someone to play and maybe even teach me a trick or two.

I also saw anouther opertunity to spread this information.
I want the world to know of this injustiuse because I would like to get a law passed and I do not know how to do it. Some day a person that does and agrees will see this and help me.

Also I have been out of this of 17 years but I am still paying the support. I am remarried to a wonderful man and my daughter now has a wonderful little girl of her own and at this time doing okay. But she had a long road to walk.

No I did not know this was going on. I would have never dreamed it would. He beat me if one of them got a scrach. I never dreamed he would hurt them.

Originally posted by Zadadka
Same posted here :
http://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?t=381219

More info about her here :
http://forum.freeadvice.com/showthread.php?p=1748601#post1748601

Plus her profile : http://forum.freeadvice.com/member.php?u=360691

EDIT : I extend my sympathies too, but agree with others that RHP is the wrong vehicle....start a blog?

Originally posted by tweetylove
but I did not take enough pills.

Originally posted by tweetylove
Well here is my story and I don't think I can be helped but would like to somehow get a law passed. I am going to try to make this as short as I can if more info is needed I am willing to tell just ask.

At 12yr I was given to a 16yr boy. Back then when you did not come to school because you are pregnant they did not push the issue. Well I spent 17 ver ...[text shortened]... hen the judge said I had to pay.

Well this is my story can anyone help? Or have any advice?

Well, besides all the horrors of the case at hand (and me not understanding why the child is still with this man, for example), I don't see how not paying is going to make the child's circumstances any better.