Originally posted by @christopher-albon
None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free.
When we project our suffering on to others, I guess we'ere attacking that part of ourselves that we despise. As such we can expect an equal amount of suffering in return in order to forgive ourselves (projecting). It's also important to be mindful that there may be ...[text shortened]... roth and bubble. Two things stand like stone. Kindness in another's trouble, courage in our own.
Agreed.
The 'other' is, in a sense, my scapegoat: the one I blame when I've lost control of me and my happiness is threatened by what they purposely or inadvertently reveal of my shortcoming.
This can make me even more desperate--- this projection of my failure on them--- because now I am forced to present a lie which I know only as a lie, but to 'sell it,' I must accept it as true.
Huge conflict now, which ends up in even greater projection: surely this other ass deserves even more of my 'righteous' vitriol since it was them that knocked me from my throne!
Soon, they're in hell, me the presumed gatekeeper silently burning in ceaseless torment, gladly accepted as the cost of doing the right thing.
After all: they didn't use their turn signal, right?