Lib woman cannot find a masculine liberal man to date.

@shavixmir said
So? No definition of “the masculine man” then?

Masculinity is often toxic. Some dudes just can't handle their testosterone. My definition is like most others, though: a man is someone who handles his commitments and obligations in a responsible manner. I must say, though, that pheromones play a major factor in animal attraction. I went out with a Navy SEAL for about a year (yeah, right?), and I couldn't be in this guy's presence for more than ten minutes without soaking my panties. I got the same reaction just from smelling his sweaty clothes, so yeah, pheromones are a thing.

The problem was that other girls had this same reaction to him, too, and he couldn't keep it in his pants, so yeah.

@suzianne said
Masculinity is often toxic. Some dudes just can't handle their testosterone. My definition is like most others, though: a man is someone who handles his commitments and obligations in a responsible manner. I must say, though, that pheromones play a major factor in animal attraction. I went out with a Navy SEAL for about a year (yeah, right?), and I couldn't be in this gu ...[text shortened]... that other girls had this same reaction to him, too, and he couldn't keep it in his pants, so yeah.

Aha.
So, the definition of a masculine man isn’t a right-wing incel spanking his monkey, whilst smelling his momma’s knickers and dreaming of assault guns and trump and whining about someone called Hunter.

So, that pretty much rules out the conservative posters on this site then.

@shavixmir said
Aha.
So, the definition of a masculine man isn’t a right-wing incel spanking his monkey, whilst smelling his momma’s knickers and dreaming of assault guns and trump and whining about someone called Hunter.

So, that pretty much rules out the conservative posters on this site then.

Well, yeah.

I think there is often an 'alpha' male thing going on, too. 'Alphas' take care of the pack, they accept responsibility. These are not so common. In a group of ten random guys, I suspect that 1-2 might be alphas, maybe 1-3 betas, then the rest are scrubs.

Of course, I'm speaking of Americans, I have little to no experience with men from other countries.

@suzianne said
Well, yeah.

I think there is often an 'alpha' male thing going on, too. 'Alphas' take care of the pack, they accept responsibility. These are not so common. In a group of ten random guys, I suspect that 1-2 might be alphas, maybe 1-3 betas, then the rest are scrubs.

Of course, I'm speaking of Americans, I have little to no experience with men from other countries.

Chess forum Americans are obviously scrubs.

@shavixmir said
Chess forum Americans are obviously scrubs.

Obviously. 🙂