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A "cold approach" is when you approach an attractive woman in a social setting like a nightclub, street, mall, train, coffeeshop etc and start a conversation and try to either get her number, make plans for a date, or if you are lucky, bring the girl back home the same day.

So I guess a "warm approach" is when you approach an extremely ugly woman, who would probably go out with a trained monkey she is so desperate.

How many of you have done the cold approach?

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Originally posted by homedepotov
A "cold approach" is when you approach an attractive woman in a social setting like a nightclub, street, mall, train, coffeeshop etc and start a conversation and try to either get her number, make plans for a date, or if you are lucky, bring the girl back home the same day.

So I guess a "warm approach" is when you approach an extremely ugly woman, wh ...[text shortened]... t with a trained monkey she is so desperate.

How many of you have done the cold approach?
Many more options available and in play than the two-valued semantic your op posits.

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Originally posted by homedepotov
A "cold approach" is when you approach an attractive woman in a social setting like a nightclub, street, mall, train, coffeeshop etc and start a conversation and try to either get her number, make plans for a date, or if you are lucky, bring the girl back home the same day.

So I guess a "warm approach" is when you approach an extremely ugly woman, wh ...[text shortened]... t with a trained monkey she is so desperate.

How many of you have done the cold approach?
I am attempting the "cold approach" right now on my wife. Apparently she is missing ALL of my signals as I sit with my back to her and the world...

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Many more options available and in play than the two-valued semantic your op posits.
I was just being facetious, not trying to exhaustively catalog and cross-reference all types of approches.

Sheesh, you are such a painstaking, rigorously intellectual fellow. 🙂

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Originally posted by homedepotov
How many of you have done the cold approach?
How many haven't would probably be the better question... Oh wait, I forgot this is a chess site.

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Originally posted by homedepotov
I was just being facetious, not trying to exhaustively catalog and cross-reference all types of approches.

Sheesh, you are such a painstaking, rigorously intellectual fellow. 🙂
Still a kid, homedepotov, so in a sense it's my job to be accustomed to playing

as well as doing my chores intensely and sometimes getting the two confused.

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Originally posted by homedepotov
How many of you have done the cold approach?
Are you 15 or something?

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Originally posted by Palynka
Are you 15 or something?
51.

I guess I really wanted some cold approach horror stories.

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Is your avatar Adam Lambert?

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Originally posted by FreakyKBH
Is your avatar Adam Lambert?
=======THREAD CLOSED========

I should have started one that makes a pun with onion or opinion.

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Originally posted by homedepotov
=======THREAD CLOSED========

I should have started one that makes a pun with onion or opinion.
Hey, I like your thread. Can I buy you a drink?

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Originally posted by hopscotch
Hey, I like your thread. Can I buy you a drink?
Good one, Hop... 7-8 on a scale of 10 warm.


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Edit: 8-9 might be, "Takes a unique person to author this type of thread, Home...

would this be a convenient time for you to maybe buy the house a few rounds?"



😀

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Good one, Hop... 7-8 on a scale of 10 warm.


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Edit: 8-9 might be, "Takes a unique person to author this type of thread, Home...

would this be a convenient time for you to maybe buy the house a few rounds?"



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If I'm not mistaken you have been viewed as a rather eccentric chap yourself.

Eccentrics live longer, so I am going to embrace mine and make some eccentric cold approaches, like walk up to an attractive woman and ask her if she wants to join my Millard Fillmore Is God Cult.

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Originally posted by homedepotov
If I'm not mistaken you have been viewed as a rather eccentric chap yourself.

Eccentrics live longer, so I am going to embrace mine and make some eccentric cold approaches, like walk up to an attractive woman and ask her if she wants to join my Millard Fillmore Is God Cult.
Sounds like a plan. Chances are she'll either wink a yes or wink (an elevator

treatment/lower the chap down gradually), "Maybe another time, Mr. Home".

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