20 Feb 07
When a you have a friend with a problem who could really do with having someone to have a friendly chat with to help get over it, but you're so convinced that you are their problem (because let's face it everything revolves around YOU doesn't it?) that you won't even talk to them, then you know you're self obsessed.
Originally posted by Ian68Can you word that a little better, i don't know what you're talking about.
When a you have a friend with a problem who could really do with having someone to have a friendly chat with to help get over it, but you're so convinced that you are their problem (because let's face it everything revolves around YOU doesn't it?) that you won't even talk to them, then you know you're self obsessed.
Originally posted by Ian68Look - life is too short.
When a you have a friend with a problem who could really do with having someone to have a friendly chat with to help get over it, but you're so convinced that you are their problem (because let's face it everything revolves around YOU doesn't it?) that you won't even talk to them, then you know you're self obsessed.
If you've got a problem with a friend of yours having a problem with you thinking that you think that they know that you are the problem (is that what you said) then just come out with it.
Say - "I know that you know, that I know that you think that I think that the problem is between thinking that you know where the problem lies, but the 'real' problem is that you think that me thinking you having a problem with me thinking that you're a problem - is a problem!"
They'll see the sense in that.
Originally posted by orangutanWell said!
Look - life is too short.
If you've got a problem with a friend of yours having a problem with you thinking that you think that they know that you are the problem (is that what you said) then just come out with it.
Say - "I know that you know, that I know that you think that I think that the problem is between thinking that you know where the problem lie ...[text shortened]... with me thinking that you're a problem - is a problem!"
They'll see the sense in that.
Originally posted by Ian68I haven't got any friends, so I don't worry about it.
When a you have a friend with a problem who could really do with having someone to have a friendly chat with to help get over it, but you're so convinced that you are their problem (because let's face it everything revolves around YOU doesn't it?) that you won't even talk to them, then you know you're self obsessed.
Originally posted by Ian68There you go......a rec for a wreckπ
When a you have a friend with a problem who could really do with having someone to have a friendly chat with to help get over it, but you're so convinced that you are their problem (because let's face it everything revolves around YOU doesn't it?) that you won't even talk to them, then you know you're self obsessed.
21 Feb 07
Originally posted by Ian68Is this about me?
When a you have a friend with a problem who could really do with having someone to have a friendly chat with to help get over it, but you're so convinced that you are their problem (because let's face it everything revolves around YOU doesn't it?) that you won't even talk to them, then you know you're self obsessed.
Originally posted by Ian68But if you are their problem, and you don't talk to them, doesn't that mean that they no longer have a problem?
When a you have a friend with a problem who could really do with having someone to have a friendly chat with to help get over it, but you're so convinced that you are their problem (because let's face it everything revolves around YOU doesn't it?) that you won't even talk to them, then you know you're self obsessed.