You can't start a thread discussion on RHP and the admins don't even have the courtesy to remove the "start a discussion in the forums" link from your home page.
People Start Chess Games knowing they aren't going to finish them/knowing they intend to delete them.
You know good and well that the person you are playing chess against is employing the "De Bergerac defense," thus rendering the game as you against everyone they can get to help them play.