Originally posted by casualdustThis answer is full of wisdom. I cannot tell you how many times I come across people who have a terrible time letting people help them. They are so much more comfortable with helping and serving people but cannot be on the receiving end and receive help graciously. I said to a lady yesterday who had cancer and had a lifetime of helping others that there has to be two people in this equation. A giver and a receiver and it was now time for her to trade places and allow the giver to feel good about giving to her.
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Originally posted by kirksey957I tend to be that way too, hard to accept help from others and I haven't quite figured it out yet though I'm leaning towards feeling vulnerable maybe.
This answer is full of wisdom. I cannot tell you how many times I come across people who have a terrible time letting people help them. They are so much more comfortable with helping and serving people but cannot be on the receiving end and receive help graciously. I said to a lady yesterday who had cancer and had a lifetime of helping others that the ...[text shortened]... nd it was now time for her to trade places and allow the giver to feel good about giving to her.
Originally posted by kirksey957very wise Kirk, very wise indeed! Merry Christmas Rev.🙂
This answer is full of wisdom. I cannot tell you how many times I come across people who have a terrible time letting people help them. They are so much more comfortable with helping and serving people but cannot be on the receiving end and receive help graciously. I said to a lady yesterday who had cancer and had a lifetime of helping others that the ...[text shortened]... nd it was now time for her to trade places and allow the giver to feel good about giving to her.