Originally posted by paultopiaThose *** lawyers...!😀
Uh... of course, this is not legal advice since I don't even know what jurisdiction you are in, let alone whether I'm admitted in it ...
nonetheless, it IS ETHICAL advice.
And ethically, I'd say that intentionally planning to intoxicate her, along with yourself, in order to permit -- what? -- to occur, is a recipe for disaster. The worst case ...[text shortened]... scenario isn't meaningfully better from what could be achieved sober.
This is a bad idea.
Originally posted by D43M0NDon't girls ask guys out over there? 😕
Well, recently I met a girl, let's call her K. We met, and became friends. That's the story so far.
Somehow, there is chemistry between us. We, well...flirt, you could say. I should be asking her out. But, the thing is, I dunno if she's being serious. If I did, it oculd ruin a good friendship. It could not.
My dilemma is serious. We have been ...[text shortened]... ds for a while now, and I don't know if she might get impatient or something. Please help me!!
Originally posted by D43M0NYeah well I agree with padfoot on this one. Be careful. Like he said in the girlfriends for idiots thread, you almost always end up with a broken heart or a slut.
Yes they do.
Some of your advice from all of you is good. However, getting her drunk?? We're 14 and 15, for god's sake!!
I was gonna ask her out today, but...tonsilitis struck. Dammit!
Originally posted by paultopiadude chill guys - i didnt mean u shd 'get her drunk', js that a prty has a gd relaxed atmosphere and that its easier to js let urself go and see if she likes u. i didnt mean it in a cynical or nasty way at all, sorry if it seemed that way
Uh... of course, this is not legal advice since I don't even know what jurisdiction you are in, let alone whether I'm admitted in it ...
nonetheless, it IS ETHICAL advice.
And ethically, I'd say that intentionally planning to intoxicate her, along with yourself, in order to permit -- what? -- to occur, is a recipe for disaster. The worst case ...[text shortened]... scenario isn't meaningfully better from what could be achieved sober.
This is a bad idea.
Originally posted by D43M0Nwell mate, i also would go for it.
[b]Well, recently I met a girl, let's call her K. We met, and became friends. That's the story so far.
"It's better to regret something you have done, than to regret something you haven't done"
do you want to look back on your life and wonder "what if.."?
Originally posted by Remora91Never avoid a broken heart.
Yeah well I agree with padfoot on this one. Be careful. Like he said in the girlfriends for idiots thread, you almost always end up with a broken heart or a slut.
Unlike most things, once fixed, a heart really will work "better than new"...
Come to think of it, not sure why you'd want to avoid sluts either... 😀 😉
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Dudes your forgetting the crucial thing here...
ask one of her girlfriends if she actually likes you.
A) then you'll know
B) her friend will go and tell her you asked so she knows your interested, and then the balls in her court. you seem nervous. So let her know and let her make a move.
Originally posted by dataBURNwhich is precisly why that isn't sooo good an idea...even in this "new age" the guy still needs to have the balls 🙂
and then the balls in her court...
Seriously though, that brings up a good point, I'd add to it though by pointing out that you dont have to look like a coward if you ask more bold questions like "I'm thinking of asking your friend out on date, do you know what her favourite restaurant is?" (bearing in mind that I haven't a clue any more what would be the applicable question to a teenager)
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