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Well, recently I met a girl, let's call her K. We met, and became friends. That's the story so far.

Somehow, there is chemistry between us. We, well...flirt, you could say. I should be asking her out. But, the thing is, I dunno if she's being serious. If I did, it oculd ruin a good friendship. It could not.

My dilemma is serious. We have been friends for a while now, and I don't know if she might get impatient or something. Please help me!!

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Go for it dude!
You can always make new friends.

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Originally posted by D43M0N
Well, recently I met a girl, let's call her K. We met, and became friends. That's the story so far.

Somehow, there is chemistry between us. We, well...flirt, you could say. I should be asking her out. But, the thing is, I dunno if she's being serious. If I did, it oculd ruin a good friendship. It could not.

My dilemma is serious. We have been ...[text shortened]... ds for a while now, and I don't know if she might get impatient or something. Please help me!!
I'm with Crowley here, go for it. There is no reason this should affect your friendship, speak to her about it, i am sure if you are pretty close friends then no damage will be caused. And if it does go wrong blame Crowley

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I say go for it too, I have been in a similar situation once, and I just left it too long before doing anything about it...and the moment was lost.

Besides, even if she is not interested in getting serious, show me a girl who does not like having the company/attention of a nice lad who finds her attractive, and I will eat my keyboard.

Oh yeah, and if it goes wrong, blame both Crowley and eyeqpc.

-Russ


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Originally posted by D43M0N
Well, recently I met a girl, let's call her K. We met, and became friends. That's the story so far.

Somehow, there is chemistry between us. We, well...flirt, you could say. I should be asking her out. But, the thing is, I dunno if she's being serious. If I did, it oculd ruin a good friendship. It could not.

My dilemma is serious. We have been ...[text shortened]... ds for a while now, and I don't know if she might get impatient or something. Please help me!!
If she's flirting, then, like most women/girls, she wants the attention (even if she doesn't want you) and will appreciate being asked.

However if she's flirting and doesn't want the attention, then she's either emotionally disturbed or not really a true friend...

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Go for it my friend. See what happens and if she doesn't wants to be more then friends just take the step back and explain your feelings. She will not turn the friendship down.

Oh and if it does goes wrong blame Crowley, Eyeqpc and Russ 😀

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I am no expert when it come to love, but friends do not flirt?

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I'd say - go for it. It's always better than beating yourself up with the "What if?" stick later ...

Oh, and blame Crowley, eyeqpc, Russ and NicolaiS if something goes wrong ...

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Originally posted by lucifershammer
I'd say - go for it. It's always better than beating yourself up with the "What if?" stick later ...

Oh, and blame Crowley, eyeqpc, Russ and NicolaiS if something goes wrong ...
Ja, he can always say that he made the wrong move.

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Originally posted by D43M0N
Well, recently I met a girl, let's call her K. We met, and became friends. That's the story so far.

Somehow, there is chemistry between us. We, well...flirt, you could say. I should be asking her out. But, the thing is, I dunno if she's being serious. If I did, it oculd ruin a good friendship. It could not.

My dilemma is serious. We have been ...[text shortened]... ds for a while now, and I don't know if she might get impatient or something. Please help me!!
There is nothing worse than meeting them again at a party several years later after losing touch with them, and they say to you "I sure wish you would have asked me out back then".

That sucks,

Mike

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Originally posted by D43M0N
Well, recently I met a girl, let's call her K. We met, and became friends. That's the story so far.

Somehow, there is chemistry between us. We, well...flirt, you could say. I should be asking her out. But, the thing is, I dunno if she's being serious. If I did, it oculd ruin a good friendship. It could not.

My dilemma is serious. We have been ...[text shortened]... ds for a while now, and I don't know if she might get impatient or something. Please help me!!
K? She doesn't work as a land surveyor, does she?

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ALWAYS "go for it" in this type of situation.

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Originally posted by Russ
I say go for it too, I have been in a similar situation once, and I just left it too long before doing anything about it...and the moment was lost.
Your wife doesn't read the forums, does she?

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Originally posted by Crowley
Your wife doesn't read the forums, does she?
No. 🙂

-Russ

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Originally posted by Russ
No. 🙂
Phew...!

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