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I have a friend in Halifax.

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I need some help. I have this friend in Halifax who is gay but he has a very hard time accepting his true feelings. I want to talk to him, but anytime anyone brings it up he gets extremely defensive and even down right offended (typical defense mechanism). I just want him to accept himself for who he is and hopefully live a happier life. What should I do? Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks.

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Maybe he's a bisexual and he fancies you too. 😉


I think you have to let him make up his own mind what he wants to do.....etc etc. People don't thank you for trying to help in those circumstances, I find.

My advice is just talk to him about "other" things.

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Originally posted by Raven69
I need some help. I have this friend in Halifax who is gay but he has a very hard time accepting his true feelings. I want to talk to him, but anytime anyone brings it up he gets extremely defensive and even down right offended (typical defense mechanism). I just want him to accept himself for who he is and hopefully live a happier life. What should I do? Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
provide she-males.

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Originally posted by Raven69
I need some help. I have this friend in Halifax who is gay but he has a very hard time accepting his true feelings. I want to talk to him, but anytime anyone brings it up he gets extremely defensive and even down right offended (typical defense mechanism). I just want him to accept himself for who he is and hopefully live a happier life. What should I do? Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
You're fighting generations of rough and tumble fisher folk culture. Still, from what I understand, a Brokeback Fishing Boat is not uncommon. Days at sea, too much beer, close quarters... situations happen.

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Originally posted by Raven69
I need some help. I have this friend in Halifax who is gay but he has a very hard time accepting his true feelings. I want to talk to him, but anytime anyone brings it up he gets extremely defensive and even down right offended (typical defense mechanism). I just want him to accept himself for who he is and hopefully live a happier life. What should I do? Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
Is this him?

http://tr.im/lT8L

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Originally posted by Raven69
I need some help. I have this friend in Halifax who is gay but he has a very hard time accepting his true feelings. I want to talk to him, but anytime anyone brings it up he gets extremely defensive and even down right offended (typical defense mechanism). I just want him to accept himself for who he is and hopefully live a happier life. What should I do? Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
Simple. Stop trying to clean his kitchen. You women love to clean other people's kitchens. Seems that if you take out some of those "I"'s from your post you'd be halfway there. This isn't about what YOU want.

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Originally posted by uzless
You women love to clean other people's kitchens.
can you point me in the direction of said women.

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I think you'd better talk with him about other things.
When he wants to talk with you about being gay, he will bring it up.

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Originally posted by Thomaster
I think you'd better talk with him about other things.
When he wants to talk with you about being gay, he will bring it up.
she forgot to add that she also fanicies him. he is in-fact her idle. what do you do then your idle who you've longed for all your life is gay?

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Originally posted by Raven69
I need some help. I have this friend in Halifax who is gay but he has a very hard time accepting his true feelings. I want to talk to him, but anytime anyone brings it up he gets extremely defensive and even down right offended (typical defense mechanism). I just want him to accept himself for who he is and hopefully live a happier life. What should I do? Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
Try....

"Who's anus do you prefer, mine or my dad's"....either way, you got a party happening.

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I neglected to ask, is he married? Perhaps he's bound by loyalty to his family even though he lusts for the purple starfish?

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Originally posted by huckleberryhound
Try....

"Who's anus do you prefer, mine or my dad's"....either way, you got a party happening.
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Originally posted by Raven69
I need some help. I have this friend in Halifax who is gay but he has a very hard time accepting his true feelings. I want to talk to him, but anytime anyone brings it up he gets extremely defensive and even down right offended (typical defense mechanism). I just want him to accept himself for who he is and hopefully live a happier life. What should I do? Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
Wait a minute, you have a friend?

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Originally posted by Raven69
I need some help. I have this friend in Halifax who is gay but he has a very hard time accepting his true feelings. I want to talk to him, but anytime anyone brings it up he gets extremely defensive and even down right offended (typical defense mechanism). I just want him to accept himself for who he is and hopefully live a happier life. What should I do? Any help/advise would be greatly appreciated, thanks.
Where exactly is Halifax?

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