It was in disco. We barely talked but I almost broke my leg, couldn't walk so she and her girlfriends gave me a ride home. Somehow I managed to get her number from third party. If I send cell phone text message to totally unknown girl that could be for her :
a) accetable
b) ok
c) stupid
Thanks 😵
That's my problem. Always rationalize, I am always being super ego control freak, never driven by instints. I have strong instints, I just supress them so my boring stupid brain can analyze a bit more and destroy every chance to be happy and confident.
Originally posted by BusygirlYeah, you are probably right, but maybe it is best to meet her in person once again, try to be more wordy and then send a message. I think I could see her in Saturday.
Go for it, what's the worst she can say? "No thanks, you're too clumsy for me"? Unlikely. She probably thought it was cute that you were vulnerable.
P. S.
Hear, hear, control freak talking once again out of me 🙁 The fact that I am analyzing my analysis (and I am just analyzing my analyzing of analysis, ad infinitum, if I can read my words well!!)doesn't help me too much.
Never too drunk or nonchalant to stop THINKING !!!!! moron !! 🙁
call her and tell her that you would have sent her some flowers if you would have had an address ( flowers are very nice and much appreciated and the thought will serve you well )....if you feel a bit clumsy and don't know what to say just tell her outright that you feel odd and such but still wanted to call to say hello and would like to let her know that you think she is nice....honesty is the safest and most reliable place to be ( don't be like grampy bobby or hand of hecate...they swill vodka and don't bathe and lie alot ...nice girls don't like that ).
Originally posted by ivan2908Are you sure it was her number you were given? For all you know it could be her 95 year old grannies phone number!
It was in disco. We barely talked but I almost broke my leg, couldn't walk and he and her girlfriends gave me a ride home. Somehow I managed to get her number from third party. If I send cell phone text message to totally unknown girl that could be for her :
a) accetable
b) ok
c) stupid
Thanks 😵
That's my problem. Always rationalize, I am ...[text shortened]... boring stupid brain can analyze a bit more and destroy every chance to be happy and confident.[/b]
Also are you sure it is not a ladyboy? he and her girlfriends gave me a ride home. 😛
well, usually I am pretty confident with girls, but only when I have the opportunuty to know them better. It's not just about girls, I was always like that ; while some people can meet new people and instantly feel relaxed, I need some time to know them better in order to be myself. I just can talk relaxed with people I don't know.
Originally posted by adramforallEDIT: Message sent, nothing special, I just wrote that I would like to meet her again next weekend. 😛
Are you sure it was her number you were given? For all you know it could be her 95 year old grannies phone number!
Also are you sure it is not a ladyboy? [b]he and her girlfriends gave me a ride home. 😛[/b]
Adramforall, I really hope we're not talking about boy here !
Originally posted by ivan2908well, for him and those like him, every girl is a guy.
EDIT: Message sent, nothing special, I just wrote that I would like to meet her again next weekend. 😛
Adramforall, I really hope we're not talking about boy here !
ummm, yeah...
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