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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Yes, and let's expand it: "... if it concerns serious conversation..." to include spontaneous verbal jousting events over topics of marginal

importance that succeed in generating more heat than light as well as personality attack tirades ad infinitum, ad nauseam, etc, that signify

nothing. At the very least, it seems we should level up to the c ...[text shortened]... provide additional information is often necessary but "only joking" attempts to absolve.
If your joking, your joking, its really that simple. If it was a deep and harsh personal attack by someone, an apology or a butt whupping may be in order. But for something as small as general forum daily activity, you should never take it personally, its a joke around here 90% of the time. And again, if your speaking of my JOKE thread on your posts, it was a JOKE, and it clearly stated that it was.

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Originally posted by PocketKings
If your joking, your joking, its really that simple. If it was a deep and harsh personal attack by someone, an apology or a butt whupping may be in order. But for something as small as general forum daily activity, you should never take it personally, its a joke around here 90% of the time. And again, if your speaking of my JOKE thread on your posts, it was a JOKE, and it clearly stated that it was.
Neither you, Pocket, nor any other members were in mind. Your "as small as general forum daily activity" phrasing seems a tad dismissive.


Submit to you that many intelligent, passionate, highly competitive men and women take their posting as seriously as their chess games.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Submit to you that many intelligent, passionate, highly competitive men and women take their posting as seriously as their chess games.
Oh no sir! I agonize over just the right word or phrase in my posts. I type and retype. I Google-spellcheck. If I paid half as much attention to my games, I would be pushing 1900. 😳

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
"I was only joking."



What a world class weasel phrase is that! Goodness gracious. If you've got something to say, say it. Stand by it. If you later change your

mind, simply acknowledge it. Everybody will know when you're joking, without cue cards or being told... because we'll be laughing with you.



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I agree with that. This is reasonable though.

"I'm sorry, it was a joke, I guess it was in bad taste."

Then let them rant for a while and listen attentively.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
Neither you, Pocket, nor any other members were in mind. Your "as small as general forum daily activity" phrasing seems a tad dismissive.


Submit to you that many intelligent, passionate, highly competitive men and women take their posting as seriously as their chess games.
That's me! I don't care much about either.

Well sometimes I do a semi-serious job on a scientific post.

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Originally posted by Nowakowski
so does legalizing marijuana. some things just don't work out even if they make sense
They don't? It's working out in CA.

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
"I was only joking."



What a world class weasel phrase is that! Goodness gracious. If you've got something to say, say it. Stand by it. If you later change your

mind, simply acknowledge it. Everybody will know when you're joking, without cue cards or being told... because we'll be laughing with you.



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You're joking, right???

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Originally posted by Grampy Bobby
"I was only joking."
That's what she said.

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Originally posted by AThousandYoung
They don't? It's working out in CA.
lol...define "working"...when you don't have to worry about state officials zapping you, but the feds can still throw you in jail...

lol... its got its problems their too... once again, just because it makes sense, doesn't meen it's going to work.

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HAHA! RoFl