Originally posted by Vladamir no1Of course it's all your fault. The sooner you come to terms with this the better for all those involved. Just think of all the wonderful, fun and sexy things things she has ever done for you and then smother her in kisses.
so angry i even wrote the thread heading with a mistake, I missed out argue, maybe its my subconcious wishing there was no arguing.... Oh an apparently its all my fault!
Originally posted by mokkoyou're either an ultra sensitive guy or a woman π
Of course it's all your fault. The sooner you come to terms with this the better for all those involved. Just think of all the wonderful, fun and sexy things things she has ever done for you and then smother her in kisses.
Originally posted by mokkoAn Im insensitive so if I do something wrong in innocence and constantly get tortured by monotonous shouting, moaning...... I'm not a bad guy I dont go to the pub, I dont cheat...... All I do that doesn't involve her is work and chess!
Well I'm not ultra sensitive.....you do the math π
Originally posted by Vladamir no1That's two things too many π
An Im insensitive so if I do something wrong in innocence and constantly get tortured by monotonous shouting, moaning...... I'm not a bad guy I dont go to the pub, I dont cheat...... All I do that doesn't involve her is work and chess!
Originally posted by Vladamir no1Is she good for you? Are you growing, improving, getting to be a better person? Or is this affecting your feelings of self-worth, of confidence? If so, get out. Tell her this is not good for you and go. Life's too short to waste on negative relationships.
All we do is argue argue argue............. i just cant see a way out but goodbye......... If u got any advice good or bad shout it out π
Originally posted by buffalobillThanks for the advice....
Is she good for you? Are you growing, improving, getting to be a better person? Or is this affecting your feelings of self-worth, of confidence? If so, get out. Tell her this is not good for you and go. Life's too short to waste on negative relationships.
Originally posted by Vladamir no1Hey, I'm no expert but I learned things about myself and my needs from a bitter and deeply damaging experience that required a couple of years of psychotherapy to sort out. Don't get into destructive relationships. Only positive ones. But that's me - your mileage may vary.
Thanks for the advice....