Originally posted by HandyAndy
It does appear gratuitous. doesn't it? But, let me take this opportunity to tell you, once again,
if you don't mind, about my son, the upper-level high tech genius. He takes after me, of course.
Quite to the contrary of your sarcastic cheapening of one father's sentiment regarding the safety of his only son abroad, Eric's similarities to me are confined to painstaking intensity; work ethic patience; and genuine kindness. There are obviously no genetic predispositions per se. Eric has excelled in Contact Sports (since we discovered his natural affinity for Ice Hockey the age of five). Heidi, my only daughter (also adopted) has been blessed with an IQ Above 170. She's become a Professional Music Vocalalist and Teacher (having studied in Florida; Eastman in New York; and a Summer Conservatory in Austria). Each has one daughter and two sons; and resides in geographically distant locales.
In virtually every significant career and social aspect, the three of us couldn't be any more interdependently diverse. The only parental credit accrued would be in having gradually let them find and fulfill their respective potentials. Within the loose framework of opportunities provided, these two remarkable children (who continue to amaze us) seized the moment and self determined its direction. God's Grace has blessed us; we neither deserved, nor earned this privilege.
In the light of your limited awareness of any of these facts, until now, this unprovoked sarcastic comment indicates a near total lack of parental empathy or sensitivity to others (a pattern which, in the future, I shall gently ignore). gb